my wife wants me to find a bull but doesn’t want to be involved in the process really, is this common?

[cuckoldron]

I have always been the one to find men for my ex wife and multiple Girlfriends
I never had one "find the guys" the fucked - usually i would present pictures of men and recommendations
and she would "pick" the ones she wanted - but never had any contact with them before the fucked her ....

 

[sharingcouple75]

So my wife and I have both had interracial porn fetish for years and years but never played outside our Marriage. Any time I try to discus finding a Black Bull for us she becomes extremely hesitant and uninvolved.

Lately I’ve been talking to her and pretending as if I have found a bull for us that we will be meeting with as some undetermined time and she seems extremely receptive to the idea. In a sense it’s just role play between us but I also ask her if she would really service a BBC in the situation and she says yeah.

Again, if I try to seriously discuss this and have her be involved with finding someone she is unresponsive to the idea and won’t engage with the men I have introduced her to.

I’m thinking instead she more wants me to just arrange it for us and just tell her it’s going to happen for real.

I will talk to her about it more but I know she is willing to try a real Black Cock but maybe just too shy or something

Any thoughts ?

From our first time until now…I always find the bulls. The very first time she met her first Hotwife date at the hotel bar. She wore a shirt with a zipper on it. I told her to meet him and I’d come down. If the zipper was pulled down then I knew it was a go. It was. I feel that gave her an out without verbalizing anything. Saying things out load can be intimidating. In my experience, most wives don’t like to talk about fucking other men with their husbands initially…but it does get there… or has for us. Keep in mind there is a thought she may have that she would be forever be the “one who cheated”…and that could be a HUGE burden—and one she may be scared to take on. To this day I still finds the guys she fucks. She trusts my judgement…TRUST. The only way you build trust is open communication and experience. Be supportive and DO NOT pressure. Always give her an out that she doesn’t have to say out loud so she is more comfortable.