Hey forum,
Sorry if this has already been discussed. My husband and I have been in this lifestyle for going on two years. It’s fun and honestly I was surprised at how much it has brought our marriage together. Even though it has brought us together more I feel as if I’m slipping away from him sexually. He hasn’t seemed to make any comments about it but I feel as if I’m more “alive” and turned on when I feel the sport of going and finding different men to have sex with me and then coming home to a stable environment. If any women agree with that please feel free to chime in so I don’t feel like I’m a bitch for that. But being that I have so much fun going out and having “hookups” I do feel like I want to share that experience more with my husband on a whole new level. He likes to see videos of my hookups but never wants to come along in fear it will interfere with my ability to have a fun night. He is honestly really selfless and cares more about me than himself. But I was toying with the idea on how to “cuck/sissy” him because I really think that would be really fun and a whole new way to share this lifestyle so it doesn’t feel completely one sided on my end by having all the fun and him just having videos. My question is how do you get your husbands in to that and also to you men or bulls out there. How likely are you to still want to have a hookup when the husband is involved and what becomes too much to where you back out?
Thank you in advance!
Sorry if this has already been discussed. My husband and I have been in this lifestyle for going on two years. It’s fun and honestly I was surprised at how much it has brought our marriage together. Even though it has brought us together more I feel as if I’m slipping away from him sexually. He hasn’t seemed to make any comments about it but I feel as if I’m more “alive” and turned on when I feel the sport of going and finding different men to have sex with me and then coming home to a stable environment. If any women agree with that please feel free to chime in so I don’t feel like I’m a bitch for that. But being that I have so much fun going out and having “hookups” I do feel like I want to share that experience more with my husband on a whole new level. He likes to see videos of my hookups but never wants to come along in fear it will interfere with my ability to have a fun night. He is honestly really selfless and cares more about me than himself. But I was toying with the idea on how to “cuck/sissy” him because I really think that would be really fun and a whole new way to share this lifestyle so it doesn’t feel completely one sided on my end by having all the fun and him just having videos. My question is how do you get your husbands in to that and also to you men or bulls out there. How likely are you to still want to have a hookup when the husband is involved and what becomes too much to where you back out?
Thank you in advance!
Perhaps you have something different in mind. There are a lot of men out there who would gladly go on a playdate with a couple while the husband is present - watching or taking part in a threesome scenario - but in order to make it work all of you should have same things in mind. Discuss your likes, dislikes and boundaries before a playdate to avoid unpleasant surprises! Also let both your husband and the "bull" know what they can expect from a threesome with you, and what not. 
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