Hi everyone!
My husband and I will be attending the Splash Mocha event taking place in Ft. Lauderdale in July. We booked pretty late so we don't have a room at the hotel but we will be there on Saturday, 7/15 with a day/evening pass and will be staying at a nearby hotel. We'll be there as first-timers mostly just to check things out and to hopefully make some good connections, but also to do some fun and naughty things if it works out well for us.
It's sort of an exploratory trip for when we'll be back for the Orlando Splash Mocha event in December (New Years Eve).
We're both looking forward to it but we're not really sure what to expect. We aren't really a traditional hotwife/cuckold couple but this seems to be one of the only real hotwife-themed events in our area, and when it comes to play partners my only requirements are that they are kind and handsome, find me attractive, and won't flake out at the last minute. Having a good sense of humor and not taking yourself so seriously is also a plus!
Unfortunately we've had a lot of issues with flakes in the past, mostly with younger guys, but I've had a lot of good experiences and play sessions as well. I'm hoping to have a good experience here and, if possible, would like to make some connections beforehand so that we aren't going in completely alone and blind.
That's mostly why I'm writing this - to avoid that scenario.
So here are my questions for you:
1. Are you going? If so, when will you be there, and what are your goals and how will you go about achieving them?
2. Have you been to one of these events before? If so, what should I/we expect? I'm not new to being a hotwife, but I've never been to a hotwife-themed event before so this will all be new to me/us.
3. Ladies, how do you meet potential play partners at these events? Do you find that connecting beforehand is helpful? Or do you just sort of wing it? Gentlemen, how do you prefer to interact with the hotwives at these events? What makes one stand out in your opinion? Do you have any other advice to offer?
Thanks so much for reading this! Feel free to answer all, some, or even none of these questions and just reply with your thoughts. I'm looking forward to reading them! -Liz