That was my thought too, my guess is she didn't love him enough to begin with or they didn't follow guidelines.
Is she thinking about it?
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she hasn't slept with another man. very tight pussy.
I encourage more open communication about your desires. Help her understand why you want it. And how much more beautiful she will be to you afterwards.
I've told her I want her to be fully pleasured.
But that’s not 100% the truth. Yea every good cuck wants his wife to be fully pleasured. But tell her the selfish reasons. Otherwise your not making her feel like your both getting something out of the experience. My wife only agreed after I told her I wanted her to do this for me. And after a long conversation of why I wanted it for myself she was ok with it.
You make a very good point.
Because there are people who are unsure about their situation and there are people who never think and then can't understand devastating circumstances afterward.
No mine has had other men before me, but not after
I want this so bad for her pleasure.
I totally am curious as to how you went about that talk, and what you said your reasons were! I have had the same issue
I must admit, While my Wife and I were white on white swinging , I never once worried about Her having feelings for any of Her many partners, like myself, I never found any emotional attachment to any of my female partners.
However after my Wife discovered the joys of fucking, what I would consider huge black cocks,She by Her own admission, stated She absolutely loved being fucked by them, and the bigger the better.
When She found a regular black boyfriend some 18/19 years younger than Her (@ 48/49).
She started what turned out to be a nearly 10 year relationship with Him.
She also stated to me ( When we had sex mostly) how much She adored sex with Him.
As 2/3 years went by, I felt or noticed a change in the way She spoke about Him, and felt that She was obviously having strong feelings for Him.
Fortunately for me, He was married and the ******* of two girls and although He loved fucking my Wife on His own and with various male and female friends, and although, He by His own admission thought a lot of my Wife, He always kept things in perspective.
My Wife however,I felt had a lot stronger feelings for Him, He was able to get Her to do almost anything for Him, and as their relationship developed and He learnt.more about the dynamics of Our Marriage,and what turned Me on,Knew what buttons to push.
As I have said earlier We have been swingers for a very long time , So I was used to Her having sex with other guys etc etc.
But I must admit I felt in a somewhat cleft stick situation, after I realised the extent of my Wife,s feelings for Her boyfriend, part of Me loved Her having sex that drove Her wild and part of Me felt ( What if She leaves me ? ).
All this was kept in check by the fact that He also had a family which He loved.
When the relationship between them ended, my Wife was I think 61/62, and Him around 40,ish.
As My Wife and I are in our mid seventies, and all this is in the distant past, I have asked my Wife occasionally if She would have left me for Him.
She has always been so Honest with me in everything during our long life together.
She said He never once asked Her to leave me, however She wanted Him to ask Her, to leave me,and live with Him.!!!
However She also said that It was always a fantasy She held, and whilst She,adored what Her relationship with Him brought to both our sex lives, and some of the slutty thing She did with Him.
That to Her our marriage was more important to Her, Thank God .
However after my Wife discovered the joys of fucking, what I would consider huge black cocks,She by Her own admission, stated She absolutely loved being fucked by them, and the bigger the better.
When She found a regular black boyfriend some 18/19 years younger than Her (@ 48/49).
She started what turned out to be a nearly 10 year relationship with Him.
She also stated to me ( When we had sex mostly) how much She adored sex with Him.
As 2/3 years went by, I felt or noticed a change in the way She spoke about Him, and felt that She was obviously having strong feelings for Him.
Fortunately for me, He was married and the ******* of two girls and although He loved fucking my Wife on His own and with various male and female friends, and although, He by His own admission thought a lot of my Wife, He always kept things in perspective.
My Wife however,I felt had a lot stronger feelings for Him, He was able to get Her to do almost anything for Him, and as their relationship developed and He learnt.more about the dynamics of Our Marriage,and what turned Me on,Knew what buttons to push.
As I have said earlier We have been swingers for a very long time , So I was used to Her having sex with other guys etc etc.
But I must admit I felt in a somewhat cleft stick situation, after I realised the extent of my Wife,s feelings for Her boyfriend, part of Me loved Her having sex that drove Her wild and part of Me felt ( What if She leaves me ? ).
All this was kept in check by the fact that He also had a family which He loved.
When the relationship between them ended, my Wife was I think 61/62, and Him around 40,ish.
As My Wife and I are in our mid seventies, and all this is in the distant past, I have asked my Wife occasionally if She would have left me for Him.
She has always been so Honest with me in everything during our long life together.
She said He never once asked Her to leave me, however She wanted Him to ask Her, to leave me,and live with Him.!!!
However She also said that It was always a fantasy She held, and whilst She,adored what Her relationship with Him brought to both our sex lives, and some of the slutty thing She did with Him.
That to Her our marriage was more important to Her, Thank God .
Me too
I told her I wanted her to go black. I know she's attracted to hot black men. She deserves it. I tease her about it a lot. she once asked, "What if I fall in love with him?" I said I'm willing to take that risk.I totally am curious as to how you went about that talk, and what you said your reasons were! I have had the same issue
That's what I'm thinking tbh, she fucked an arab guy before, so its not inconceivable she'd want to try black
Inbox I'm perfect size for the first black cock
Wife and I have been talking about her fucking other guy for almost 3 years. Shortly after admitting what I wanted for her most of the porn we watched became “amateurish” IR porn. Not intentionally but it just seemed hotter and found a ton of it out there where the folks in the scenes were good looking or not out of shape etc. Also me being Latino our sex toys became lighter BBC toys and not white flesh tone as she was more into toys closer to my own shade. Little by little things changed to where she would make comments about Black men in movies or shows we were watching. Then one morning in bed we were talking about her past-sex with other guys, guys that hit on her in college, guys she dated etc. Some Black guys asked her out and she admitted to being attracted to Black men and Black guys going back to when she was young. So here we are. Lol. We shall see where this journey takes us.
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My wife is very attracted to black men but still won't act on it. I'm being patient.
Of course-you have to be. You can’t ******* someone to do something. Especially something intimate like fucking someone else. I mean SHE would be taking someone inside her. It has to be when SHE is ready
Of course. It has to be her choice.
