Is she thinking about it?

jmccormick82

Couple
From
SD, US
So, my wife is well aware of my fantasy of her fucking another man, brought it up years ago, I've been telling her to get some new dick constantly since then. Awhile ago she asked if I could ever be with a woman who's gone black before, I said of course and that I think it's hot af. She has had multiple lovers before me, but claims she never went black, although she claims she has seen a bbc, and her ex's black friend wanted to fuck here. She cheated on him, but claimed it wasn't that friend. After I told her that, she has started watching black led shows, and changed her Siri voice to a black man. Just want a general feeling here, has she already had black before? Or is she thinking about it?
 
So, my wife is well aware of my fantasy of her fucking another man, brought it up years ago, I've been telling her to get some new dick constantly since then. Awhile ago she asked if I could ever be with a woman who's gone black before, I said of course and that I think it's hot af. She has had multiple lovers before me, but claims she never went black, although she claims she has seen a bbc, and her ex's black friend wanted to fuck here. She cheated on him, but claimed it wasn't that friend. After I told her that, she has started watching black led shows, and changed her Siri voice to a black man. Just want a general feeling here, has she already had black before? Or is she thinking about it?
She has tasted it before
 
I'm urging my wife to go black, too, but she's too scared.
I don't think mine is scared necessarily, just mostly hesitant or apprehensive. Not really sure why, she says she isn't attracted to black guys, but then why the tv shows, and the Siri change? She almost goes out of her way to watch the shows. I think honestly that she's afraid she'll like it too much out that it'll hurt us. She has told me in the past she didn't think I'd like it as much as I think I would, she has also said if I brought it up when she was younger she probably would've done it.
 
Mine may be scared she'll like it too much also. But I said I'm ok with that. She asked what if she fell in love. I said I'd take that risk.
Yeah, has she at least been with someone else besides you already? Mine is reluctant on that too so i might be pushing too hard with a bbc first, but I think if we could get the right scenario she'll jump on board either way
 
I don't think mine is scared necessarily, just mostly hesitant or apprehensive. Not really sure why, she says she isn't attracted to black guys, but then why the tv shows, and the Siri change? She almost goes out of her way to watch the shows. I think honestly that she's afraid she'll like it too much out that it'll hurt us. She has told me in the past she didn't think I'd like it as much as I think I would, she has also said if I brought it up when she was younger she probably would've done it.
Had a long discussion about my fantasy with my female counselor. Told her I was frustrated because I used to be able to play with my wife around this fantasy, big black toys, IR porn, sex talk, etc, and she would cum so hard. But now it’s just shut down. It doesn’t make sense because this happened way before she stopped playing with this fantasy of mine, but back in 2009 I thought she was having an affair. Not with a black guy. It was a very difficult time in our marriage but we saw a counselor and although she never admitted to it, we came to terms that we could both be ok with.

Anyway, the last time I brought this up (about how she is shut off to playing with my fantasy, she said, “the reason I don’t is because of the hell you put me through back when you accused me of cheating. I won’t go there mentally because of that.” But try as I might to explain that that was an entirely different situation….. cheating is doing something behind my back thag I absolutely don’t approve of but this is something I would have full knowledge of and would approve and then some. She still sees it as the same.

in any event when I was talking to my therapist, she said this fantasy is common with many of her married clients, and in some cases, she gets the sense that the wives are concerned that they will like it too much and will cross a line that will damage their marriage.
 
Had a long discussion about my fantasy with my female counselor. Told her I was frustrated because I used to be able to play with my wife around this fantasy, big black toys, IR porn, sex talk, etc, and she would cum so hard. But now it’s just shut down. It doesn’t make sense because this happened way before she stopped playing with this fantasy of mine, but back in 2009 I thought she was having an affair. Not with a black guy. It was a very difficult time in our marriage but we saw a counselor and although she never admitted to it, we came to terms that we could both be ok with.

Anyway, the last time I brought this up (about how she is shut off to playing with my fantasy, she said, “the reason I don’t is because of the hell you put me through back when you accused me of cheating. I won’t go there mentally because of that.” But try as I might to explain that that was an entirely different situation….. cheating is doing something behind my back thag I absolutely don’t approve of but this is something I would have full knowledge of and would approve and then some. She still sees it as the same.

in any event when I was talking to my therapist, she said this fantasy is common with many of her married clients, and in some cases, she gets the sense that the wives are concerned that they will like it too much and will cross a line that will damage their marriage.
So you think she's afraid she'll like it too much as well
 
Mine may be scared she'll like it too much also. But I said I'm ok with that. She asked what if she fell in love. I said I'd take that risk.
You would be willing to risk your marriage by having your wife hookup with black men ? My wife had a black lover whom she fell in love with and left me to go live with him. If you love her you would not be willing to take the risk.
 
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