Ah, I can understand that makes it harder to handle, and also keep secret. Maybe also gives it an interesting edge, something forbidden, extra loaded with excitement?Yes I see. I guess I come from an upbringing where that stuff like race matters a little bit at least. One of many reasons to be discrete but yes that is one of them! other than the typical reason of a strange man not my bf lol
I guess I will have to take it a bit at a time
You do that, follow your own feelings and grow into it in your time. And don't listen too much to strangers in internet forums Only if their words resonate with your own truth... which it seems it currently does