I'm not going to divulge the profile of this person.
But here's the story.
They reached out to me because they saw one of my many posts. I always ask that people read my profile first, because it avoids awkward situations down the road.
I have met people from this site in the past - I know a lot of you wonder "does anyone actually meet from b2w?" well I do and I have met people from this site before.
the chat was great on here, so we moved to snap
And the chat was amazing on snap
they are a younger couple in Arizona, not far from where I live - and I was very very excited to meet them
(which is rare -I don't usually get excited about most people)
But I was excited.
I have a lot of experience - more than most of the men on this site and so one of my rules is something that is called "consent and negotiation" which is my way of talking to the woman I'm going to have sex with - BEFORE we have sex and just get a sense of what she likes and also what is a "no go" the stuff that is off limits, so that I know the boundaries. And with couples that is extremely important. I dont want to step on anyone's toes and hurt the relationship.
you cannot do consent through text - it must be face to face or through video chat.
(I hope everyone understands that)
Yes, it is good to get in a text message - I want to fuck you
but we were already way past that point
Sending me a text "I want your cock"
Does not automatically mean you are going to get it.
(wake up people, this is 2024)
Anyway, I have a video chat with the gf - and we have a really nice chat. Like again -Im super excited about this.
So we agree to meet an hour later.
And then the weird stuff happens
1. She texts me and says she can't meet because now she got called into work
2. She reschedules for the next day. (I agree because I have some free time)
3. She never texts me the next day.
4. Then later in the evening, she texts me and says - "can you come over?"
"No, I cannot come over."
I have a life. And you're not in my life. I had one video chat with you - how did you take that video chat to mean that you're like someone I am going to prioritize in my life.
5. The bf begs me to fuck his gf in text.
6. They tell me they were "out of town" to deal with family
7. They beg me to meet them the following evening
8. I tell them upfront - "I cannot promise anything, I have a schedule just like they do - and I had Monday and Tuesday open this week and the rest of the week is not clear at all. Like I have a lot of things going on. It will have to be another time"
9. More begging on text - "please, please, please..."
10. I text them throughout the day and never promise anything. I do say that I will text when im headed back home
11. I send a text from my car
12. No response again.
13. the next morning - I text them "What happened?"
14. "sorry, we fell asleep."
No apology, no "we messed up" - no accountability.
Instead, they want to try and turn this around and say, "you're afraid to meet us."
Hold up - what??
Who is calling the kettle black here??
I think they revealed themselves in the texts. I think they got cold feet and didn't want to admit it. Which is unfortunate on two accounts. one, Im not going to judge someone for changing their mind. Just be an adult and say, "this is too real and we dont think we can handle u fucking my gf" Or just admit that you're scared and I will slow the pace down.
"I get that you're scared," I mean -- you should be a little nervous
That's actually normal to be scared to meet a guy like me
I can be very intimidating.
Not only do I have experience, but I am also very knowledgeable about how to make this dynamics work - so it can be intimidating.
I get it.
I dont blame people for being scared - that would be toxic and wrong.
But not being honest about your feelings and not be able to express your honest feelings is not good.
and then to try and gaslight me
so this is what I said.
"dude, you are too much drama."
I recommended they use tinder to try and find a guy to fuck his gf - they will not be intimidating like me
And guys on tinder do not have a roster of girls to fuck
Oh- the gf got very mad that she wasn't my only option.
And I said to her on video - "are you ok with the fact that I know other women? Like is that ok with you?"
And she said yes - of course she could have changed her mind - which she is allowed to do - but be honest with me about it.
I find that a lot of couples have a hard time talking to me because they literally think that I have nothing else going on. That when a guy offers his wife or gf to me that I am somehow grateful to fuck her. I'm sorry, but its a lot of work to fuck another mans gf or wife. There are a lot of expectations on my shoulders. It is 100% easier to fuck a single girl who just wants my cock and will do what I want to please me.
When I work with couples, I am navigating three people's emotions. The guy, the girl and myself.
I don't see bfs/and husbands capable of doing all of that and still getting an erection and still fucking your girl until she orgasms.
So give a little credit where credit is due.
I told the gf - why I liked her.
I was honest. I like that you live so close and I like that you're open to other women
And here's why?
Her proximity to where I live means - I will probably fuck her more often
And the fact she is open to other women - Im going to tell those other girls to meet me at her house.
Again -- Im going to fuck her more often.
Thats why I was so excited about this potential opportunity.
The bf kept begging me, she has a tight pussy, she is younger than your ex.
to which I had to say - yea, she might be younger than my ex, but I just met a college girl who is telling me that she will be one of the most submissive women I have ever met and she wants to make sure that the incoming freshman girls in September know about my cock. So, bro, are you telling me your gf is going to be hotter and tighter than 18 and 19 year old college pussy??
Like bro, are you serious??
But let's live in reality for a second here.
Your gf is sexy. Your gf is around the corner. And I want to fuck your gf.
Fantasizing about some mythical college pussy that I might get - is ridiculous...Like your gf is here and now wanting to fuck me
Or so it seems...
Long story short the bf and gf throw a hissy fit.
(Idk??)
I dont hold grudges because thats self-destructive behavior. And I dont want to hold on to anger or resentment or anything that will ruin my own life.
they have their issues - and maybe if they work out their issues they can reach out to me again
They need to apologize profusely to me and take 100% FULL Accountability - if they expect anything with me.
But I never say never -- so maybe they will come to their senses.
Like I said, the guy has an account on here - so hopefully he sees this and if all of you comment and tell him "what an idiot" he is being..
maybe he will come to his senses.
I would like to fuck his gf - not once, but REPEATEDLY for as long as they live close by.
Again, meeting a couple that lives so close to you is RARE to say the least...
But I have a really amazing life and I dont need drama or whatever is going on in their world.
Thanks for listening B2W community.
I just thought you should all know that there are men on this site that do meet people - and there are real people here...but sometimes people get cold feet. And thats ok - I just wish people would be more honest about it.
LOL
most likely.
