AnonymousRob
Male
Oh I have. I’ve asked her, starting out very subtle, and eventually just came out and asked her. It’s a definite no, but then she gets super into it with the dildo and the roleplaying.
How to Introduce the Wife to the Lifestyle
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Sometimes that's all a guy gets. Maybe as you get older. Not all wives will be shared wives,just like not all men like the idea of sharing their wife. I hope her no turns into a yes.
AnonymousRob
Male
I’m hoping so too. Who knows. I’m not going to be pushy. I want it to be something she enjoys, not just something. I enjoy. I’m not small, around 7 and thick, but I know she would love a larger cock. I can tell based just on how she reacts to the dildo. That’s one of the reasons I am looking at getting a newer BBC dildo for her.
There are many subtle ways to introduce the idea. Why not watch some good amateur interracial porn with her. Let her see the white wives beam with pleasure during and after. Then..........you should say nothing after the first 2 or 3 movies, just watch with her. Let her watch without any coaxing from you at first. After watching 3 or 4 movies (or more) within a span of one week or 2, you just bring up how well the women in the movies enjoy it. Then you introduce the idea as best you can. You know your wife, we dont, so you know the best way to introduce it. The idea I'm getting at is............you cant just show her one movie and be all over her trying to get her to accept the idea. Go slow, and you will have better results.
Bristolangela
Female
Try and get her communicating with another lady who’s experienced the dark side possibly on a regular forum maybe ?
This is also a great idea............
AnonymousRob
Male
That’s a great idea
Bristolangela
Female
PM me if you wish x
When I was at that point I just went out on a ledge and took the chance,and whipped out a brand new realistic bbc dildo she just gave me a look I've never seen before or since ,but she did not protest as I started using it on her
