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triny

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So my husband and I started watching porn over the past year as our sex life began to cool off. At first it was just normal couples porn you know vanilla stuff. But there are always ads for other porn on the side. One day my husband accidentally clicked on an ad that led to interracial porn. As soon as it came up he said we won't be needing that. I looked at him and said oh really? He stated at me disapproving. His disapproval made me a little intrigued as I've always thought about what it would be like doing it with a black guy.

A few weeks later we were watching open again and I "accidentally" clicked on the same link he clicked on before. He looked at me and I said what are you scared? I refused to watch anything else for sex with him that night and since then we've been watching interracial porn regularly.

We started to talk about making our fantasy a reality but we just don't know how to go about it in a safe way.

What do couples do who are new to this lifestyle?

Please help!!!!!!!!!!
 
triny said:
So my husband and I started watching porn over the past year as our sex life began to cool off. At first it was just normal couples porn you know vanilla stuff. But there are always ads for other porn on the side. One day my husband accidentally clicked on an ad that led to interracial porn. As soon as it came up he said we won't be needing that. I looked at him and said oh really? He stated at me disapproving. His disapproval made me a little intrigued as I've always thought about what it would be like doing it with a black guy.

A few weeks later we were watching open again and I "accidentally" clicked on the same link he clicked on before. He looked at me and I said what are you scared? I refused to watch anything else for sex with him that night and since then we've been watching interracial porn regularly.

We started to talk about making our fantasy a reality but we just don't know how to go about it in a safe way.

What do couples do who are new to this lifestyle?

Please help!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes. He knows and approved. We can chat here.
Mainly we want to know about the lifestyle and what it entails. As I said in my first post I have been denying him sex unless we are watching interracial porn while doing it. Recently I started denying him sex altogether as we discovered cuckolding. We just don't know how to move forward with the lifestyle. Please help us
 
is your pussy big enough for black? If not...get a black dildo...the biggest one you can find. After a while...start clubbing where you KNOW some black men are...even some on here. Start to wear really trashy, slutty clothes if you haven't already.....
 
triny said:
But will they be ok with going back to the house knowing that my husband wants to watch? And plus I'm scared to go in the club alone! How do we get into this thing safely?
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Yes...going home with you to let your husband watch should be no problem with someone in the LS...Once there is mutual comfort. Then after playing a while and all the questions of newness are gone, a good BBC would take you to the clubs.

The best way is to meet for a coffee or a drinks and chat a bit, feel each other out, then let nature take its course....at least that's how I roll here in Tampa :)
 
coolnsexy said:
Yes...going home with you to let your husband watch should be no problem with someone in the LS...Once there is mutual comfort. Then after playing a while and all the questions of newness are gone, a good BBC would take you to the clubs.

The best way is to meet for a coffee or a drinks and chat a bit, feel each other out, then let nature take its course....at least that's how I roll here in Tampa :)
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Since they're a cuckold couple, couldn't the husband ******* her to the clubs to find a bull?
 
triny said:
Yes. He knows and approved. We can chat here.
Mainly we want to know about the lifestyle and what it entails. As I said in my first post I have been denying him sex unless we are watching interracial porn while doing it. Recently I started denying him sex altogether as we discovered cuckolding. We just don't know how to move forward with the lifestyle. Please help us
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I love that you've taken charge. Pussy makes the rules for little white boys.
 
Swinglifestyle.com, sdc.com, adultfriendfinder.com have all worked for me. Check profiles, introduce yourself, talk, meet socially, gauge interest, then get into the sex if all parties are feeling it.
 
triny said:
What do couples do who are new to this lifestyle?
Please help!!!!!!!!!!
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....triny, you are making it difficult for the forum members to help you. It would help a bunch if you'd take a few minutes and fill out your profile, ok?
....Right now, we don't know WHAT kind of experience you and your husband have in "swinging", much less cuckolding or interracial dating, etc. We don't know what state or part of the WORLD you are in, so we can't really recommend a swing site or place to go. And, having children At Home presents a whole different set of issues based upon how old they are now, particularly if it is your intent to bring your "bulls" to your home. We always took our ******* to our grandparents or to one of their friends when we did any home swinging, but once they get a certain age, the "grandparents thing" is OUT as the ******* start getting wise.
,,,,So, how about filling out your profile, OR at least talk a bit about what activities you and your husband have had with 3-somes, couple swaps, etc. Because, involving a bull black male can be and often is a whole new league of swinging challenges. Sharing a partner with others for sex can be exciting, but it needs to work within the perimeters you and your spouse set up for your particular marriage ... every couple has their own preferences and limitations. For examples ... will you require condoms, will you insist your husband be nearby, or will it be ok if your husband has a sexual fling with other females. You say you are denying him SEX ... if he's a young guy, just how long before you think he's going to start looking for sex elsewhere? Maybe he's bisexual, and desires another male in your relationship so HE can be near another naked male and have a chance at sucking another male's cock ... we forum members don't know THIS information because you haven't volunteered it yet. As far as I'm concerned, giving you advice as to how to proceed is more like throwing darts at a dart board at this point.
....So, please help US to help YOU if you want serious responses.
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As @MacNfries says above would be a good first step...next get verified...following that involve yourself in the chat are with any number of verified BBC (and there are numerous verified and experienced BBC on site)...set something up and have a great time...Not doing any of those things will insure unfulfilled fantasies at best.
 
triny said:
So my husband and I started watching porn over the past year as our sex life began to cool off. At first it was just normal couples porn you know vanilla stuff. But there are always ads for other porn on the side. One day my husband accidentally clicked on an ad that led to interracial porn. As soon as it came up he said we won't be needing that. I looked at him and said oh really? He stated at me disapproving. His disapproval made me a little intrigued as I've always thought about what it would be like doing it with a black guy.

A few weeks later we were watching open again and I "accidentally" clicked on the same link he clicked on before. He looked at me and I said what are you scared? I refused to watch anything else for sex with him that night and since then we've been watching interracial porn regularly.

We started to talk about making our fantasy a reality but we just don't know how to go about it in a safe way.

What do couples do who are new to this lifestyle?

Please help!!!!!!!!!!
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I think everyone on here has given you some really good advice. If you want my opinion, usually when a couple seeks me it’s based on several things. Obviously, there is always the attraction. The woman has to be attracted to the me physically. After that, it’s communication. I can’t tell you how many couples have approached me that are new to the lifestyle and are somewhat embarrassed to share their desires with me. I take pride in knowing I can comfort them. After all, I’m not here to judge. I’m here to help bring their fantasy to reality while respecting their boundaries of our arrangement. Sure, some couples simply want an African American man for a one night experience, but for those who want an ongoing sexual relationship, you have to communicate. It’s the foundation to trust and it allows you to get a glimpse of the person and their true intentions. Sex is sex, but I think sex needs to be an experience when it comes to couples. For instances, I’m very dominant. I’m really animalistic when it comes to sex. I’m aggressive and rough. For a new couple, they may not want me to be dominant. They may want me to be more passive as the adjust to having another man present. Well, I hope I didn’t talk your ear off. I only wanted to give you some insight from someone who has been a Bull for couples that have been in your shoes. Good luck with your journey. Happy pickings.
 
triny said:
As for my pussy we have 2 kid's so I think I can take it. That raises another point....what about our *******? How can we hide it? What if they find out????
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I can talk to you about this. I've done this before and I've talked to a married couple about doing it with another black bull. The question becomes what KIND of bull are you looking for. That will determine how you go about it.
 
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