My wife knows I want her to fuck a bull. She's always been attracted to hot black men but is very prudish. ... She's even mentioned to me she saw a hot black guy and was going to take a picture and send it to me. ... Plus, recently she told her best GF and another couple that I wanted her to go black. ... But she hasn't told me she wants to yet. Do you think it's a matter of time?
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thanks for posting. I would not say its a matter of time. Its more dependent on "who" not when.
If that makes sense.
From what you describe, your wife likes the "idea" but ideas do not make reality. Women are very capable of keeping fantasies - well fantasies. They dont need all of their ideas to come true. Its really strange and very different from men, who want all of their dreams and fantasies to come true. Thats a fundamental difference between men and women.
How this plays out sexually is if you want your wife to have sex with someone, you need to introduce her to the "person".
Let me put it a different way. Your wife has 1000 questions going on in her head, so if you can answer all of these questions, she will fuck the guy you introduce her to
1) who is he?
2) what does he do?
3) will he respect my limits?
4) is he STI clean, so I dont need to worry bout it?
5) how many women is he currently fucking?
6) is he only a 1 night stand guy? (this is important because guys that dont have repeat performances are 'less" desirable to women)
7) does he have a nice voice?
8) is he funny?
9) how will he treat my husband/bf?
10) will he make me less nervous?
11) will he talk or be silent when we have sex?
12) does he last a long time?
13) how big is his dick? (Notice that wasnt the first question.....)
14) does he want to kiss me?
15) does he know how to make me orgasm?
16) will he lick my pussy?
17) will he just get dressed and leave after, or do I get aftercare?
does this start to make sense?
if you want your wife to fuck someone, you need to know these things about the guy, and you need to make it REAL for her to analyze and then make a decision. Your wife does not want to "suppose" and make up hypotheticals. Thats what guys do. We can hypothesis all day, but women want action.
Questions that I need to complain for her. I know her werry well and more that half of the questions are true
huh? I really do not understand your reply. Try using full sentences next time. It helps if you use 2 hands to type, instead of holding your dicklette at the same time.
she might be afraid of her reaction if her attraction turns into, something, more..
Many times I have chatted with women who were not even in the lifestyle and they would talk about their curiosity or their absolute desire to try bbc. Many of them told me that their husband's have actually informed them that they desired to see them take a bbc, but most of these women all said the same thing that they didn't believe that their husband's could handle what they wanted so they were not going to do it.
Now I know what that really meant that it was just was code for they were not gonna do it in front of hubby!
There are guys that start dating porn stars and make them stop working with black guys. I mean they can do as many anal dp gangbangs as they want with 10 white guys just don't work with any black guys anymore because they psychology cannot handle the thought of bbc penetrating their woman. There are some porn stars who started out restricted by their husband's from bbc at first like Jewel's Jade who's hubby is a Navy Seal. Or you will notice some porn stars will start doing interracial sex scenes after their careers seem to decline or become stagnant. Nothing like a bbc to boost your ratings.
Ultimately women know a little more about the psychology of men when it comes to sex than men or at least they think they do. If a woman doesn't think you her husband can handle it and it will change how you see her or feel about her then she won't do it.
I had a brand new hotwife chat with me a few months ago and she told me her husband talked her into trying the lifestyle and she agreed. When they went to their first swinger party she said she went buckwild and fucked every black guy in the place! She said her husbands disappointed face said it all. She said she don't think that they will ever be doing that again. Now she will likely cheat on him because she's had a taste of what else is out there and it will be his fault.
This is why my number one rule and expectation when it comes to couple's is that the hotwife be completely uninhibited and able to express herself sexually however she desires to ensure she has the best experience possible!
just tell her if she wants to play with a black guy it’s fine. Show her some bbc porn when you are going down on her
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