How to approach a bbc in public

[MrBlknDeep]

Ok, I will say that this is fast becoming one of my favorite forums so far. Reason being is because being a Blk Gent and in the interracial scene, I know what it may take when it comes to being on the opposite side of this coin. Remember, you don't have to follow my instructions here, but they do work... Good Luck

1) First, as everyone has stated before, Eye Contact is highly important; but let's take it a bit further if probing a "vanilla" or public setting...
2) Hubby, if out with your Lovely Mrs. you need to be the one that approaches the Blk Gent.
3) You and the Mrs. have got to be on the same accord of your choice as well. There are way too many husbands that "think" they know what their wife is seeking. Communication is paramount here!
4) Mrs. your play in all of this is to be dressed as sexy and somewhat seductive as you can; or as the public setting will allow. Also, little BBC desired "indicators" always are key touch i.e. tattoos, anklets, toe rings, collars, etc.
5) Now, when approaching a Blk Gent, my suggestion from past experiences is that you guys, as a Cpl, should be separated. Mrs. sits away from the the two men. Hubby approach the Blk Gent, offer a bit of small talk and get a read from the potential Blk Gent. After which, then you could move into informing the Blk Gent that your Wife, GF, Significant other, is extremely into Blk men and finds you attractive and would possibly like to get to know you (the Blk Gent) more...
6) Hubby, you also make the Blk Gent more comfortable by explaining your role in the entire situation.
7) You, as the Hubby, invite the Blk Gent back to your table where the lovely BBC desiring Mrs. is waiting.
8) Communication and Transparency again takes over for the conversation to be had.
9) You could then take the option of grabbing a Hotel room or setting a later date for Playtime(s) if the Chemistry is indeed there.
10) Finally, Meet & F*ck till your sexy BBC Seeking Mrs. is good and stretched to completion! Enjoy!!!

Mr. BnD

 

[Damianjamaican]

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE

Confidence is a big thing. Don’t be scared of us, all people love bein approached.

 

[Aeryn]

I usually wait for them to approach me.

Although my BF says I'm incredibly obvious when I'm into someone - lots of giggling, arm touches. I'm not super aware of it, though.

My experience is that most men like to think it was their idea.

 

[blackandkinky]

Just say hello. We don't bite. If we feeling you we'll have a conversation, if not we'll move along. A lot of men like women to make the first move and approach with a smile.

 

[Dexbad]

eye contact a smile always helps

Yesss... So important

 

[clarabi]

A smile and a wave

 

[UK Black Bull]

Ladies its real simple just ask would you like to stretch me out and take me deep and empty that sac of yours inside me

 

[Madmac11]

Usually for me it's eye contact and then a smile or hello to strike up a conversation. For the most part I'm friendly and chat with people depending on the situation if it's a couple at the store usually a subtle sign that you're showing her off... Usually pulling up her top to show her ass or pulling her skirt up a bit to show leg. Or point out something that she needs to bend over to get.

 

[BlackMaxxx]

Imo is not what you say its how you say it. Just your tone, strong eye contact. Certain actions as light body touching(arms, shoulders). A light joke or two. With all that a simple Hey can turn into a fun night.

 

[Mskatieq]

Just like with anything in life, a simple smile goes a long way!

But honestly, in today’s busy world, I tend to have more luck connecting first on apps, like Tinder and POF where I can connect with local people. Sometimes it’s nice to be able to chat first, see if we are looking for similar things, and then go from there.

 

[whitechickslay]

Shy women are a hard breed if they are not confident enough to approach black men. I do enjoy them when they open up. Only thing we can do as black men is provide them the opportunity and it’s up to them to take it. I enjoy the women here in Destin Fla as they are not at all shy in what they want which is to get deep fucked, used and enjoyed and not disrupt their white picket fence life

 

[bbcalpha]

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE

Girl its so easy all you need to do is smile at any of us & say hello & you can tell by the way he will smile right back at you & say hello right back, most likey with the line girl i would love to have ur number, which by the way really means omg i would love to fuck you. see thats how easy it is, then all you have to do is say yes to everything he asks you like, are you free tonight YES, can you come to my house or hotel room or do you me to come to your home YES, can you spend the night YES & if it was me hope you wear a sexy outfit with stockings YES, see its that easy trust me.

 

[ImHimTheBbc]

I would love to know this too please. I always get so frazzled when it comes to approaching a black man to strike a conversation and I just end up not following through.

I want to pound u with my bbc

 

[AnnaLea]

For me, I cheat because I miss stamina and size in my marriage. So for me it is of utmost importance, that my lover at least provides me with these two things.
Also before answering that question I have to point out that there are stereotypes about black guys that are true and others are not: yes, the biggest cocks I have ever been with have almost always been black but no not all black men are hung. The average black cock, according to serious medicinal surveys is bigger than the average white one but not really considerably. So for me it comes down to the fact that yes, the biggest dicks are black and yes, the black guys in most cases are the better lovers but just deliberately jumping at any black guy, hoping that he has a big dick is prone to cause a lot of disappointment
which leads me to my answer: I have been with for black men so far. The first guy seduced me, the following three I approached on the Internet or in a swingers club. it has to be in places where I can make sure that they actually have what I’ve been looking for.

 

[Kurt 2]

Make eye contact, smile and play with your hair. Put your hands on your hips. Some women change place and walk up to me and stand up or sit down right next to me to make me understand. The prettier, the more confident and explicit.

 

[michael87]

For me, I cheat because I miss stamina and size in my marriage. So for me it is of utmost importance, that my lover at least provides me with these two things.
Also before answering that question I have to point out that there are stereotypes about black guys that are true and others are not: yes, the biggest cocks I have ever been with have almost always been black but no not all black men are hung. The average black cock, according to serious medicinal surveys is bigger than the average white one but not really considerably. So for me it comes down to the fact that yes, the biggest dicks are black and yes, the black guys in most cases are the better lovers but just deliberately jumping at any black guy, hoping that he has a big dick is prone to cause a lot of disappointment
which leads me to my answer: I have been with for black men so far. The first guy seduced me, the following three I approached on the Internet or in a swingers club. it has to be in places where I can make sure that they actually have what I’ve been looking for.

You are making me wish I was black, Anna. I like your circumspection and choosiness in males a lot, and your bold pro-activeness in seeking out suitable lovers. At 35 years young you have had ample opportunity to sort out and live out your likes in men. I can believe are not very often disapointed satisfaction-wise. Rather the opposite.

I too have exceptional stamina and am very well-hung, long and girthy with strongly upcurving erections. I gather your unsuspecting husband is white. and can't keep it up or hit the right "spot" in you genitally.

Dammit I would love to meet you! Are you in any way averse to mainly hetero bisexual men like me as lovers? Many of the women I have satisfied actually prefer bi guys as lovers because of their sensitivity and skill and extreme attentiveness in pleasuring a woman in every possible way, including orgasmically and emotionally of course.

PM me if you think you may be inclined to go White for a change, or just to chat more privately. By the way, I have German ancestry (Berlin and Luchenwald).

MICHAEL

 

[KawaiJess]

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE

Well I would start with approaching them saying hello first. If you are just going up to someone random in public I treat it like dating. I go up and say hi and see if I can start a conversation. From there maybe ask them to grab a ******* or lunch sometime if they do not suggest it. Then we go from there. I think if you just go up to someone and jump right into the sex part of things you have a good chance of it not going well.

 

[Mywifelovesthis]

A friendly hello like with any person. Then go from there.

 

[James Moody]

I’m not unusual so what works for me would work for many – BUT NOT ALL – white pussy lovers.

• The Big Three. Make eye contact, smile and say something. Anything. Though a simple “hi” or “hello” might suffice, you’ll get an even bigger reaction by...
• Engage Him in Conversation. How? Easy. Just ask an open-ended question. This applies equally to a woman approaching me as well as a man/hubby/boyfriend. Don’t kvetch over “God! What do I ask?!” Make it simple, very simple about where you are or what you’re doing. At a meeting: “What did you think of such and such?” At a bar: “What’s that you’re drinking?” or “Can you recommend something to ******* for me?” or if you’re a guy fronting for your gf/wife, “Can you recommend a nice ******* for my wife/gf?” or in a store or mall “’Scuse me, where did you get that (sweater, shoes, bag, whatever)?” The idea is to give you both a chance to determine – in a comfortable manner – whether you’re interested in continuing to talk or not.
• Drop an Innocent Hint. You want to get to the point but too direct can be very embarrassing to you both and besides, too direct is not for the feint of heart. I’ve had 1 buddy whose line at the club/bar was “you going to the hotel with me tonight?” Another, at parties, was “we gonna fuck?” I suggest using a metaphor that, while being innocent to many, has a meaning that for people like us – IR sex freaks – opens the door. My favorite to be asked would be: “You ever play cards for fun? My favorite game is Spades (grinning or giggling) I always identify with the Queen of Spades. Do you have a favorite character or suit?” If he doesn’t get it, let the conversation end graciously, e.g., time says you gotta go, etc. Otherwise, whether he wants you specifically or not, you’ve got your answer.

I’ve got lots more on this if you want. PM me.

 

[MrsMarvel]

Looking for suggestions on how to approach a random bbc in public about interracial sexual interest. Interested in hearing from both men and women...TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE

I would say this could be a risky move unless there are signs the man is into it. Other than that be brave and go for it or at least to break the ice. If part of a couple probably better to have the wife approach.