How Should I Proceed?

[husbandchris]

Thanx for asking, yes women can be mysterious LOL
She sounds very much like I was to be honest. Before I met hubby I'd only been with a couple of guys (white) and for much of my married life was quite shy and vanilla in many things.
We started, like you, with black dildoes, and hubby was very good at talking a good fantasy role play when we were in bed. "Imagine your at school, your new strict headmaster is black- Mr Johnson- and he's punishing you for being the school slut' etc. He turned my 'headmaster' fantasies, into a BBC related fantasy.
In the end just the mention of black cock got me wet. I knew I wanted to try, hubby had convinced me this wasn't a one off fantasy, that he wouldn't get jealous. So I said I'd try 1, possibly 2 guys. Mainly to please him really. But when I'd been with my first guy and the world didn't come crashing down, I went with another and carried on.
Having sex with another guy is just that, sex, everything else in your life goes on just the same.
If you have a big birthday or anniversary coming up, perhaps suggest she does it as a special gift for you? Won't cost her anything! X

our big problem like many other couples is that wife is beeing led very close, she has even fantasies, or she admit that black men are hot so dear Ann what your saying, your hubby just keep pushing, yet what i ask what is the key if you now look back how did you hubby eventually break the ice....cause too much pushing could lead dead end,
so what me or someone else should day to say to wife to break the ice yet not pushing her to wrong mood...

 

[Ann4BBC]

our big problem like many other couples is that wife is beeing led very close, she has even fantasies, or she admit that black men are hot so dear Ann what your saying, your hubby just keep pushing, yet what i ask what is the key if you now look back how did you hubby eventually break the ice....cause too much pushing could lead dead end,
so what me or someone else should day to say to wife to break the ice yet not pushing her to wrong mood...

Hubby didn't push it all the time, just when we were having special sexy nights.
I'm not sure what the final thing was. One of my big worries had been (and still is) that hubby still gets jealous about my previous boyfriends (especially my first ever sexual bf) that I had before we met. So I was sure he would bring up at some point in the future about me having sex with black guys. So he had to convince me that wouldn't happen, and it never has. As soon as he convinced me of that, I thought 'why not?'
Find out why she really doesn't want to do it, and work on that I think. X

 

[husbandchris]

Hubby didn't push it all the time, just when we were having special sexy nights.
I'm not sure what the final thing was. One of my big worries had been (and still is) that hubby still gets jealous about my previous boyfriends (especially my first ever sexual bf) that I had before we met. So I was sure he would bring up at some point in the future about me having sex with black guys. So he had to convince me that wouldn't happen, and it never has. As soon as he convinced me of that, I thought 'why not?'
Find out why she really doesn't want to do it, and work on that I think. X

yes thats good, real point secure wifes emotions and feelings, make sure that hubby won tmention or become jelous, yet is it all that if so its easy to fucus on that, yet i have "known" that yet as i said i cant know how much that means for wife....as you said, it must mean A LOT...so you say its not so big deal for wife to have sex some one its just she cant bear that akward moment if hubby cant handle it..

 

[stampa27]

introduce her to the hypnotic sounds of gangsta rap. It may really help her to loosen up and it will help her with her inhibitions

She really doesn't care for rap lol

 

[JonHarda]

IMO, your wife already is keen to the idea. Now just flat out tell her what you want

 

[Latinhotwifebbc]

Hi all,

So a few months back I told my wife I wanted to see her with a black guy. She didn't really seem interested at the time but then I think she was afraid of what I might say if she admitted to liking the idea.

Fast forward to the other day. My wife was at work and had two black clients. She had a low cut top on and when she came home she said the two guys were staring at her cleavage when she would lean over and smile at each other.

She came home super horny and she seemed eager to tell me. That night I brought it up again and she blushed. We started dirty talking, something we never do, and I told her how much it turned me on to think of her getting fucked by two well hung black guys. She was a little hesitant at first but once she felt reassured I wouln't get pissed she told me it turned her on that these guys were staring at her.

We ended up having the hottest sex we've had in years. She told me how much she wanted to fuck them while she was sucking my dick. It was a really awesome experience.

We haven't really talked about it since and my question is, where do I go from here? She obviously really likes the idea but I'm just not sure what to do next.

Any input would be much appreciated.

This is a great first step. For us, I have always enjoyed Amatuer Interracial Cuckold. Just the way how a BBC is physically fit and can fuck a wife both passionate and rough is extremely hot. Even hotter when i imagine/ fantasize sharing my wife with a BBC. What i did was that i bought a 9" black dildo that felt like the real thing. The first thing she said was "why black" !!!!!! and that's when i came clean and told her. At first she was surprised !!! but then said that she had always wanted to fuck a black man because she has always heard that black men are the best in bed. And that she had always been attracted to muscular black men. Our sex life has always been great, but since we started using the black dildo and dirty talk, it's been the hottest sex we've ever had. I suggest you blindfold her and strap a thick, big, black dildo and fuck her. Your wife, being blinfolded will make her imagine that she is being fuck by a BBC. This has work really well for us and we are currently in the process of looking for the perfect BBC. Also, i strongly advise for you to have this conversation with your wife when sex is not involve. Trust me, one thing is talking about it during sex and another thing is talking about with out sex. Just be patient and we both wish you the best of luck !!!!!!