husbandchris
Male
our big problem like many other couples is that wife is beeing led very close, she has even fantasies, or she admit that black men are hot so dear Ann what your saying, your hubby just keep pushing, yet what i ask what is the key if you now look back how did you hubby eventually break the ice....cause too much pushing could lead dead end,Thanx for asking, yes women can be mysterious LOL
She sounds very much like I was to be honest. Before I met hubby I'd only been with a couple of guys (white) and for much of my married life was quite shy and vanilla in many things.
We started, like you, with black dildoes, and hubby was very good at talking a good fantasy role play when we were in bed. "Imagine your at school, your new strict headmaster is black- Mr Johnson- and he's punishing you for being the school slut' etc. He turned my 'headmaster' fantasies, into a BBC related fantasy.
In the end just the mention of black cock got me wet. I knew I wanted to try, hubby had convinced me this wasn't a one off fantasy, that he wouldn't get jealous. So I said I'd try 1, possibly 2 guys. Mainly to please him really. But when I'd been with my first guy and the world didn't come crashing down, I went with another and carried on.
Having sex with another guy is just that, sex, everything else in your life goes on just the same.
If you have a big birthday or anniversary coming up, perhaps suggest she does it as a special gift for you? Won't cost her anything! X
so what me or someone else should day to say to wife to break the ice yet not pushing her to wrong mood...