Not really, I mean the word gets used during sex or roll play, but because a woman like sex, it is no different than a man….
I am not sure how many here are in the life style ( I mean swinger), but there is always a clear understand it is mutual enjoyment to add some spice to our private life, or a mutual agreement what would or would not occur. It supplements the physical sexual relationship or play, not replaces it….and no cheating. Everyone is discussed and with full knowledge of the other person.
A real slut…seems they would be sneaking around behind the other person back. Just my opinion (really, our opinion)