How many actual cuckold marriages survive?

[WillandSusn]

My wife does for sure. Just have to be careful with disease

. Black Bulls are very aware of disease if not even more so as word travels quickly and they are quickly isolated from women. Other black men are even less tolerant as we have seen with black sports stars that contracted AIDS in the past and were quickly isolated and soon "retired" from their sports. So many bulls today are well tested as white women want the barebare BBC and pussies filled with hot cum from their black studs.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?

Far from the truth.
Sex doesn't destroy marriages. Bad marriages destroy marriages.

In nearly every case, a great sex life ENHANCES a marriage. If great sex means bringing in others? There you have it

 

[Bigfunfun]

I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?

As far as being my wife’s cuckold marking our marriage stronger, yes I believe it has . My wife has tried other woman, and a few white guys but now exclusively not with BBC, and this is the first time in her life she is satisfied with sex. Woman she dated wanted her to leave me and so have a few white guys that fucked her but black men leave her to stay married but have brought out the natural slut in her that she always was unable to achieve. She happy, she can now cum for as long as the cock wants her to, and she feels like a sexual slut submissive and is really enjoying life and she loves me more for being supportive of her black lovers.

 

[Latina 4 BBC]

If anything, cuckolding has been an improvement in our already great marriage, especially in the bedroom.

Our communication has improved, we've become more affectionate toward one another, we both feel "sexier", we even sleep closer to one another in bed since we've started our journey into cuckolding.

We take breaks from the lifestyle when we feel it's needed. We both feel it's possible to "burn out" on too much too fast. For us, there has to be a balance between the 9 to 5 suburban existence that we occupy in the real world and the freaky s#!t that we do behind closed doors to forget about the real world.

This is the best way to describe it.

 

[firedogg81]

If anything, cuckolding has been an improvement in our already great marriage, especially in the bedroom.

Our communication has improved, we've become more affectionate toward one another, we both feel "sexier", we even sleep closer to one another in bed since we've started our journey into cuckolding.

We take breaks from the lifestyle when we feel it's needed. We both feel it's possible to "burn out" on too much too fast. For us, there has to be a balance between the 9 to 5 suburban existence that we occupy in the real world and the freaky s#!t that we do behind closed doors to forget about the real world.

Very well said

 

[StevieGirl]

Mine didn't survive. Hubby thought he wanted it, but then couldn't handle the feelings that followed. Even though I was secretly attracted to black men, I never told him or acted on it... until he brought it up. He set up a party with a small group of black guys from his job, and they took turns with me in the bedroom of our house. Hubby stayed in the living room with the guys before and after they did me. Later that night, I could tell he had regrets. But I was hooked. I mean, how could I not be. All of the guys who fucked me was amazing in their own right... and each gave me a mind-bending orgasm.

 

[firedogg81]

Mine didn't survive. Hubby thought he wanted it, but then couldn't handle the feelings that followed. Even though I was secretly attracted to black men, I never told him or acted on it... until he brought it up. He set up a party with a small group of black guys from his job, and they took turns with me in the bedroom of our house. Hubby stayed in the living room with the guys before and after they did me. Later that night, I could tell he had regrets. But I was hooked. I mean, how could I not be. All of the guys who fucked me was amazing in their own right... and each gave me a mind-bending orgasm.

But if he had been into it would you have stayed with him or had left him anyways

 

[StevieGirl]

But if he had been into it would you have stayed with him or had left him anyways

I would have stayed with him. Cuckold arrangements are great for the wife. She gets her cake and eats it too.

 

[tstud]

I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?

No - strongly disagree, just helping their relationship or marriage - not parting anyone. IT'S not happening from my experience in this lifestyle of sharing.

 

[Khrises4u]

My feeling here is that cuckolding (or really in my mind, any wider range of non-standard monogamy) sexual lifestyle merely amplifies whatever is going on in your underlying marriage. The act of sex with others magnifies emotions, in my opinion. It doesn't cause distrust between people ... unless there's distrust already there ... then it rips things apart. It also has the ability to magnify the love and respect because you have to love and respect your partner even more if you're going to watch them be fucked and pleasured by another.

I think putting too much onus on the act of cuckolding or alternate sex lifestyles minimizes the impact and quite honestly, the emphasis on the underlying relationship. We often will take pauses in sexy fun if things between us are rocky for any reason ... we have just found that it never helps to have that as a "distraction" while you may be working through something else...

 

[firedogg81]

My wife and I have been happily married for over 30 years, she's probably had 300 different cocks in her over that time, 90% of those black cocks. Neither of us could imagine a better more loving marriage than we have and if we had it all over to do again, we would in a heart beat. The only thing we might change is her walking down the aisle just BBC fucked and having a fun honeymoon of watching her take 2-3 BBC's at a time. For us, this is just an enhancement to our sex life, nothing more. Although per my urging, my wife is a complete BBC slut, it's exactly what I requested and guided us into because it turns me on and it's a huge addiction and need for me and she just so happens has always loved fucking and orgasms easily. Never for one second in our many, many years together has she not made me feel completely loved at all times. Although I do crave sexual humiliation, it turns me on to hear her tell me how much she loves and wants BBC, she does it for me. She tells me often she could stop all of this in a heartbeat if I ever wanted and she isn't a BS'r so I know she's telling the truth although it would turn me on more to hear her tell me, there is no way in hell I'll ever give up my BBC boyfriends, the sex is just to good.....and she knows that about me too. It does take a very special relationship to make this work the way it works for us and many others. There has to be complete trust both ways, a deep love and connection, an ability to communicate to one another above and beyond what would be considered "normal" communication and so on but when you do have all of this, when you both want this....her because she loves sex, loves to fuck and cum, loves knowing this turns me on and me understanding all of this, that to her it's only fucking and there is no worry about it damaging our relationship because no one will ever come between us (although they do CUM between us haha)…..it makes this off the charts super hot and rewarding. My wife fucking other men, rubbing her used pussy in my face, bragging about it, denying me at times pussy and making me cum in her hand only knowing others are fucking and cumming in it all they want, has done nothing but enhanced the sexual side of our marriage which in turn, makes the overall marriage better! Better sex in an already great overall relationship equals a level of joy that words will never explain and that others less fortunate in their own monogamous long term boring marriages with more than likely a much poorer and less rewarding sex life to both will never understand. I know there are people in marriages as long as us still monogamous and happy. I also know from experience and talking with friends in long term "traditional" marriages, when the wife's are together drinking wine and the husbands are out drinking whiskey, there are lots of complaints about sex. It seems weird and odd to me that I'm one of the only ones that doesn't have one sexual complaint and inside, that just makes me smile. One of our friends/couples who was married about the same time as us, his wife is in her 50's, looks 30 and is smoking hot still in a bikini, beautiful body and face. She has never swallowed, likes sex in just one position and thinks 3-5 times a month is plenty to suffice her husband. Here he is with a hot smoking wife, a body still to salivate over and what does he do????? he hits the Asian rub and tugs 1-2 times a week for sex because he just doesn't get enough at home. sad, sad, sad! Maybe if he let her try some BBC, it would reignite a fire in her and they could have the sex my wife and I have that would make most porn stars blush!!!!!!!!! I've never been more in love and I'm proud my wife handles our sex life the way she does, is understand, listened to my needs and responded to keep me/us both happy! She doesn't have to have BBC but understands what it does to me so goes with it. I love that about her! Yes this is my awesome wife letting me watch her take 2 BBC's for my birthday last year!!!!!!!!!!!! Took me out to dinner, drinks, then to a hotel where these two were waiting in our room in robes, a chair by the bed with a bow on it for me to sit in and watch!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's how awesome my wife is!!!!!!! She only sucks BBC so my BJ for my birthday was watching her suck and fuck 2 BBC's both of them cumming in her mouth, twice each with a big birthday kiss for me after each time!!
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[ShareMyWife]

My feeling here is that cuckolding (or really in my mind, any wider range of non-standard monogamy) sexual lifestyle merely amplifies whatever is going on in your underlying marriage. The act of sex with others magnifies emotions, in my opinion. It doesn't cause distrust between people ... unless there's distrust already there ... then it rips things apart. It also has the ability to magnify the love and respect because you have to love and respect your partner even more if you're going to watch them be fucked and pleasured by another.

I think putting too much onus on the act of cuckolding or alternate sex lifestyles minimizes the impact and quite honestly, the emphasis on the underlying relationship. We often will take pauses in sexy fun if things between us are rocky for any reason ... we have just found that it never helps to have that as a "distraction" while you may be working through something else...

Very well put....

 

[Khrises4u]

Very well put....

you know what else is well put? That ASSSS, GURRL!! Damn!

 

[nordic-pussy]

How many vanilla marriages survive? Same statistics.

 

[rocknrobin007]

Im sure every marriage is different.....has its ups and downs..but thats just life. There are so many different reasons marriages fail and maybe cuckolding is a reason for failure...but if it is a true HOTWIFE/cuckold marriage..one where the husband and wife are very much in love with each other and they enjoy living this lifestyle then I dont see cuckolding as being the reason for the downfall in their marriage....they either dont really understand and live the lifestyle in its true fashion or they have other problems that contribute to thier demise. Robin and i have been living the IR HOTWIFE/cuckold lifestyle for 20 years in its true meaning......we are madly in love with each other...best friends ..soulmates and the lifestyle we live only makes our marriage stronger. When both the wife and husband fully understand thier role in a relationship like this its a wonderful way to live. I really feel that most people use the term cuckold in a loose way...dont really understand its meaning....just use it as a sexual term for fantasy which doesnt show the true scenerio of what the lifestyle is all about.

 

[jaxbauer]

I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?

Sorry dude. Most marriage fails happen when the communication in the relationship breaks down, or sometimes couples just grow apart spiritually.

Cuckold, or sex to an extended realm are far less influencing factor. In fact I would argue couples bond stronger when the wife gets satisfied sexually; there are many forms of it, the warm embrace, body touching, kissing & genuine care from husband mean a lot more then wamh bamh; the orgasms wives get from sex doesn't necessarily come from the husband, toys is one option; but nothing beats a solid hard-on from real person.

 

[cutiepibi]

you have a very fetishized and unrealistic view of that relationship. there has to be some brakes at some point. from reading your post, it reminds of a fictional story i read where a wealthy man shares his wife and slowly turns more and more submissive, to the point where the woman marries the black man and husband (now former) becomes their eunuch.

not gonna lie it was a hot story lmao but a story nonetheless.

 

[38hsquirter]

We have married longer than most people on this site have been alive. I cuckolded my husband the second year of our marriage. We love each other and understand each of our needs. This did not come without much discussion and work.

 

[Carl C]

I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?

I agree.
My wife is almost 10 years younger than me, and we have been married for 10 years.
She is a highly sexed woman and we love each other deeply. Soon after we married I realized I couldn’t do the job in bed. She was faithful until I brought up the idea of her seeing younger guys. After a long discussion we tried it. Three years later she went black and the sex improved greatly.
After five years of her being fucked by black cock our marriage is strong, we still are in love. Our sex life is different. But I am relieved of the worry of keeping her sexually satisfied.

 

[Rodgersmith1]

Ours is stronger than ever in every single way and she's been with the same guy for a year now....he's younger really good looking well built....we don't even argue about anything at all! like nothing we are very happy....I'm thinking its because of all this.....I think what makes it all work perfectly is she has him all to herself no interruptions no one to play for...no weirdness with her husband in the room ....just the two of them all alone with each other.... he is a co worker of hers and has know idea that i know....So she has a boyfriend/lover that is unreal in bed with her....he adores her and she loves that....he has his own place she says it's really nice...they make love to each other there and she is extremely happy these days.