How many actual cuckold marriages survive?

[WillandSusn]

We have married since we were 21. She had several affairs before she admitted I did not satisfy all of her sexual needs. We had done some swinging before children. Once, the ******* out of the house she had another affair partly due to me being a workaholic. Partly she wanted to see an old very well endowed lover to see if she could still ring his chimes after three *******. She realized how much she missed his very large cock.

After much discussion, I realized she loved me but needed the satisfaction she received from her friend. She assured me she did not want to replace me. When thinking about it, I became aroused. During sex, I asked her to describe the sex between them. When she saw how hard it made me, she relented. I began to understand how much she needed the feelings a big cock gave her. I asked her if I could watch them. After asking numerous times, they agreed. I was both turned on and humilated. I had never seen her orgasm like that. We went back to swinging with threesums for her pleasure. At one party, a black man took her back to a bedroom. It was an incredible performance. He asked her to come to his house alone. That was 15 years ago.

Since we have become snowbirds, he visits u s in Florida. He came for a couple of days recently. They spent two and a half days enjoying sex. I got the guest room. She gets what she wants and in turn I get a happy wife and happy life.

. Excellant. Summary. Happy wife and happy life.

 

[AnaWmarty]

The lifestyle isn't for everyone, there has to be a love, understanding, communication and trust going into it.

Agree these 4 key elements are a must, if you think one is missing best not even try the lifestyle. take it from personal experience.

 

[AnaWmarty]

We also have seen a few couples, especially the husbands, who wanted the fantasy but when reality hit, they could not handle it. we have been involved with a couple of nasty scenes.

True with us, went well for us for more than 6 years, a year after we got married. Until my wife chose to play with a close friend of ours, who I warned her not to mess with when she hinted interest in him. Come to find out with hidden cam she messed with him behind my back. She tried telling me that I should take it as part our cuckolding lifestyle. Though I found it hot too I still could not accept it. Problems and loss of trust started between us. Now for past 18 months our sex life has gone yellow. Lucky that we are still hanging on to our marriage. Not sure if we can bring the lifestyle back in our relationship which was my idea to begin with.

 

[Fantasywife85]

When you have the relationship we have you can survive anything

 

[Bellaazz]

True with us, went well for us for more than 6 years, a year after we got married. Until my wife chose to play with a close friend of ours, who I warned her not to mess with when she hinted interest in him. Come to find out with hidden cam she messed with him behind my back. She tried telling me that I should take it as part our cuckolding lifestyle. Though I found it hot too I still could not accept it. Problems and loss of trust started between us. Now for past 18 months our sex life has gone yellow. Lucky that we are still hanging on to our marriage. Not sure if we can bring the lifestyle back in our relationship which was my idea to begin with.

Yes at this point it may be better to leave it lie as something you fooled around with in the past

 

[jdfearl]

I had a big story of what happened to me but I deleted it. All I really have to say it depends on the couple, it didn't work for me and ended in divorce. Although I know people who are still together and still have fun.

 

[WillandSusn]

True with us, went well for us for more than 6 years, a year after we got married. Until my wife chose to play with a close friend of ours, who I warned her not to mess with when she hinted interest in him. Come to find out with hidden cam she messed with him behind my back. She tried telling me that I should take it as part our cuckolding lifestyle. Though I found it hot too I still could not accept it. Problems and loss of trust started between us. Now for past 18 months our sex life has gone yellow. Lucky that we are still hanging on to our marriage. Not sure if we can bring the lifestyle back in our relationship which was my idea to begin with.

. These explorations are always an important part of this lifestyle. You need to give her lots of free rein to discover all of her hidden sexuality. Yes there needs to be limits but these need to be at the very edge of disaster so she goes up to but not over.

 

[firedogg81]

I had a big story of what happened to me but I deleted it. All I really have to say it depends on the couple, it didn't work for me and ended in divorce. Although I know people who are still together and still have fun.

is the story able to be read anywhere.like to here the success and nit success stories. i think it helps for those wanting to persue the LS

 

[jdfearl]

is the story able to be read anywhere.like to here the success and nit success stories. i think it helps for those wanting to persue the LS

I could write it out again if someone is interested.

 

[firedogg81]

I could write it out again if someone is interested.

sure am

 

[waynerobertson]

If there is communication and TRUST the marriage survives. If the girl is running around and the cuck doesn't know but finds out its difficult to repair the relationship. I like to play with the 3 of us in the room.

 

[AnaWmarty]

If there is communication and TRUST the marriage survives. If the girl is running around and the cuck doesn't know but finds out its difficult to repair the relationship. I like to play with the 3 of us in the room.

That's what I said; She did not have to do it behind my back, she had a couple of bulls she could of chose to play with, us together or her and one of them alone, as a matter of fact she supposedly went and played with one of the bulls we know come to find out later that she went and played with the friend I told her not to mess with, I found that to be hurtful.

If she really wanted to fuck our friend who I told her not to, she could of persisted and knew how to persuade me but she lead me to believe she agreed with me about not messing with him. I found out I was being deceived from her behavior and sneaking around on her phone, texting, staying up late talking on her phone and spending long time taking showers until I become very suspicions and had to find out what is going on myself, which I did.

 

[Ohcarsea]

By far, one of the best "real" threads on this forum. Enjoying the posts..?

 

[SweetHCouple19]

After less than a month, we had to break up with our first bull who became possessive, suggested divorce to our lady and disagreed with her being hugged (!) by hubby. Mad man, we guess. If she hadn’t cut him off today, there would have been trouble for our marriage soon...

 

[SweetHCouple19]

Cuckolding/Hotwifing/Doing vixen/stag ... should be a GAME. Don’t let it extend to your relationship as a whole so it would become very serious. That’s what we think.

 

[WillandSusn]

After less than a month, we had to break up with our first bull who became possessive, suggested divorce to our lady and disagreed with her being hugged (!) by hubby. Mad man, we guess. If she hadn’t cut him off today, there would have been trouble for our marriage soon...

. Very probably. Some black studs get possesive of white pussy but more experienced bulls know they can get all the white pussy they want as it is just so available today. Too bad he screwed up a good thing for him and your wife. Good news is there are plenty of black bulls looking for white pussy so should be easy to find a replacement now that the wife enjoys BBC

 

[romanodoc]

Cuckolding/Hotwifing/Doing vixen/stag ... should be a GAME. Don’t let it extend to your relationship as a whole so it would become very serious. That’s what we think.

Your wife is very beauty so a man can become mad for her

 

[romanodoc]

Cuckolding/Hotwifing/Doing vixen/stag ... should be a GAME. Don’t let it extend to your relationship as a whole so it would become very serious. That’s what we think.

Your wife is very beauty so a man can become mad for her

 

[romanodoc]

Cuckolding/Hotwifing/Doing vixen/stag ... should be a GAME. Don’t let it extend to your relationship as a whole so it would become very serious. That’s what we think.

Your wife is very beauty so a man can become mad for her

 

[hungteacher]

My best friend and his wife have been cuckolding on and off for the past twenty years. Recently found out they are on another break/separation. Seems to be about his insecurities being a cuck and other problems outside the lifestyles again

I do a lot of prep and coaching with a couple before we engage in sexual activities. For some cuckolds they get annoyed and call it off before I ever fuck his wife. I take this seriously. I read that some say "its a game" but it isnt. You have 3 people that have needs and they all have to be managed. the wife is primary. Her sexual and emotional needs must be met and supported. the cuck is 2nd and his emotional and psychological needs have to be supported and the bull or 3rd, is last. He has a lot of responsibility on his plate. He has to be really in sync with the wife to have fun sexually, but also be kind and supportive enough to the cuck so that he can handle the jealousy and insecurity that comes with being cuckolded.

For new bulls, when i mentor them, i try to get them to understand that their needs are last. But if you do that, put the wife 1st, the cuck 2nd and you last, all of your sexual and other needs will be taken care of. Wives that find a great bull, treat bulls with such reverence and adoration.

For me, I need the adoration. I spent a great weekend with a wife 2 weeks ago. Our 1st session. And i told her point blank, i need the adoration. She asked "how can i help you?" She was very helpful. She sent me texts and pics with captions "I adore you" "My pussy adores you".

I think we all need to be honest and admit that we all have our own issues that we are dealing with on a daily basis. No one is perfect. Even the most confident Bulls have their own needs and foibles.

but I respect marriage, i never want a couple that im with to get separated or divorced. I would feel it was my fault if that happened, and i dont want that.