In college one of the best classes I had was statistics and how to present data to defend a position. The class was divided into two. We were given a set of data and had to prove opposing positions. After that class I am skeptical of anyone quoting 'the data proves' xyz!
How many actual cuckold marriages survive?
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as long was you set rules and be honest with each other you have a increased chance of having it work. When you start to bringing humiliation and degrading of the spouse then you gradually start to lose respect with each other. Also as long as you keep the the relationship strictly sexual it seem to work out best for us. I would never leave my husband ever, its just as people having sex with the same person now for 19 yrs, lets be honest it gets repetitious. you can only purchase so many dildos and vibrators... haha
When Bulls ask us if we're into humiliation and degradation, we reply yes but only if it's 100% sexual. The moment a Bull begins showing signs of disrespect to either of us outside of the bedroom is the moment we pull the plug on him.
I think cuckolding is for mature couples. Once the marriage survives the standard day-to-day routine, small *******, illnesses, small infidelities - then it's time to go all the way - into swinging or cuckolding. Our marriage definitely benefitted from this. Lot's of fun and stronger family, that's cuckolding for us.
34 years and counting!!!!!!!!!!!
I totally agree with this sentiment. When my wife and I met we could not keep our hands off of each other, it was exciting and new and we were getting to know one another. Career in the military, raised *******, purchased house, indulged ourselves in toys like a boat to have fun in. It was not till later we discovered certain things about ourselves and matters in the bedroom that we realized interracial cuckolding was something we both wanted in our relationship.
I believe forming a life together, and a bond intensifies the emotions surrounding the ideas of me sharing my wife with a well endowed black man. Without all that it would be like a porn shoot to me.
Unfortunately. Some of this. Husbands testing their wives vs enjoying the sex. Wives go for it and husbands bail when she fails the test. Then her manipulates her into something else.
Just if u try to let u nail in front of ur hubby from a biggooddrummer u will feel that brain-cinema and the thrill n the kick of that.
I'd challenge that assertion. After the "pill" came out, women's lib and free love of the 60s & 70s, I tend to believe that generation was much less inhibited than this generation. Those dating apps seem to be a barrier to hooking up by keeping people at a distance. Actually going places and meeting people has become passe.
To me this generation seems content to jerking off to each others image rather than making the effort to get out and chase each other down for some old fashioned sex.
wow, very interesting
I doubt there is any way to know considering nobody has conducted a survey of marriages. I would think, based on experience, that marriages who are in a swinging lifestyle last longer since cheating wouldn't be an issue. Then again, there are probably quite a few who cheat even though they wouldn't have to since affairs are usually involving emotions more than the act of sex. We've lasted 28 years in March with no affairs, they either of us know of.
robandkate
Male
There is a variation of cuckolding that we like to call hotwifing. By our definition, in a hotwife couple the wife has sex with different men, sometimes long-term and sometimes one-night-stands, but neither the wife or husband is submissive. The wife likes lts of sex and the husband likes other guys fucking his wife.
We find hotwife couples to be very common in the lifestyle. Most hotwife couples will play with other couples under the right circumstances, but their primary fun is the wife fucking other men. Through our years of involvement in the lifestyle, we know many hotwife couples and their marriages are long-lasting and very strong. The wife takes very good care of herself and the husband works hard to keep her happy.
In our case, I am ten years older than my hotwife. She could (and has) had sex every day. I could never have kept her sexually satisfied by myself. I appreciate the fact that she is willing to have sex with other guys. Besides, I love being around guys who know from their own experience what a hot fuck my wife is.
We find hotwife couples to be very common in the lifestyle. Most hotwife couples will play with other couples under the right circumstances, but their primary fun is the wife fucking other men. Through our years of involvement in the lifestyle, we know many hotwife couples and their marriages are long-lasting and very strong. The wife takes very good care of herself and the husband works hard to keep her happy.
In our case, I am ten years older than my hotwife. She could (and has) had sex every day. I could never have kept her sexually satisfied by myself. I appreciate the fact that she is willing to have sex with other guys. Besides, I love being around guys who know from their own experience what a hot fuck my wife is.
Unfortunately, a common problem for older husbands with younger passionate wives. And not such an obvious solution but becoming more apparent and perhaps even more reasonable too as people have fewer sexual hangups and religion seems too have less interferance these days. Besides , sex like exercise , is good for your health and wellbeing.
bdowned
Male
Being proud of how appealing my wife is to other men is a huge factor I don't acknowledge enough. Thank you!
My husband and I have a wonderful marriage and it is actually better now than ever before. If you love each other and communicate well with one another you'll be fine in this lifestyle. We've been together over 30 years now.
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You guys are my idols!
mrandmrsbusty
Couple
we have been married 25 years, and have always had a strong relationship, started by swinging, and moved on to cuckolding and we can only agree that it has made our relationship stronger
ChloeCoksucker
Male
We have to agree. 25 years here too (magic number?) Anyway, we started with swinging by adding a guy to the mix. White guys in the beginning. We added in a white couple & bi sex for the wife. While fun there was still something missing sexually & emotionally. Of course thru all of this I was a total failure as a man sexually.
ENTER BBC!!
This added a totally new dynamic to our relationship. A real man came in & stretched her tight white only to this point fuck holes. All of them. He pulled her hair, called her whore & slut, squeezed her huge tits hard & pinched her nipples, pounded her pussy very hard. Then he butt fucked her. He didn’t ask like the white bois before had. He squeezed lube onto her hole & his cock & took her ass. She made sounds I had never heard before but have heard & even made myself several times since.....starting the following week. One BBC & she was instantly a Hotwife BCS & one week later I was a BBC loving sissy fairy fag, we’ll on my way to feminization.
This dimension was what we needed in our marriage. I had no business trying to fuck my wife or any woman for that matter. We both needed to worship BBC. This was an incredibly lucky break for us.
It is very important to add that our love for each other has continued to grow. It did then & it does now. My wife is the one that knew & told me after her first BBC that I was meant to be a gay fem sissy & that I would never have or want pussy again. Part of love is continually making each other happy. Some of that cums from being honest about your needs & desires. If you can’t talk openly to your spouse about your sexual needs, kinks, fetishes, etc.....then you have a problem & that needs to be dealt with first.
24 years married....enjoying cuckold a larger portion of that.
