How many actual cuckold marriages survive?

[poundcake26]

If anything, cuckolding has been an improvement in our already great marriage, especially in the bedroom.

Our communication has improved, we've become more affectionate toward one another, we both feel "sexier", we even sleep closer to one another in bed since we've started our journey into cuckolding.

We take breaks from the lifestyle when we feel it's needed. We both feel it's possible to "burn out" on too much too fast. For us, there has to be a balance between the 9 to 5 suburban existence that we occupy in the real world and the freaky s#!t that we do behind closed doors to forget about the real world.

 

[Seth1805]

If anything, cuckolding has been an improvement in our already great marriage, especially in the bedroom.

Our communication has improved, we've become more affectionate toward one another, we both feel "sexier", we even sleep closer to one another in bed since we've started our journey into cuckolding.

We take breaks from the lifestyle when we feel it's needed. We both feel it's possible to "burn out" on too much too fast. For us, there has to be a balance between the 9 to 5 suburban existence that we occupy in the real world and the freaky s#!t that we do behind closed doors to forget about the real world.

Perfect comment!!!

Our marriage has been rock steady through the years but this took it to a place we could have never anticipated.

Like you we communicate much easier about sex, which has never been easy for us for some reason. We are more in tune with each other in bed too and talk about our desires.

Balance is what we needed. We were stuck in the grind and thought we had peaked but found out we were wrong once the topic of black men came up.

 

[Bellaazz]

My personal percentage is 50% but not all cuckolds are with black bulls. Ours are white. I only mention this because your original post seemed to focus on bbc. Anyway, in my first marriage cuckolding really can't be the blame for our divorce but it did bring out other problems we had in our marriage. However my current wife are stronger than ever and she has a bull that she fucks on a regular basis

 

[Hoodbunny]

My personal percentage is 50% but not all cuckolds are with black bulls. Ours are white. I only mention this because your original post seemed to focus on bbc. Anyway, in my first marriage cuckolding really can't be the blame for our divorce but it did bring out other problems we had in our marriage. However my current wife are stronger than ever and she has a bull that she fucks on a regular basis

I would agree this is true. If a marriage has notable problems, swinging will most likely, only make them worse or highlighted or expose other problems in addition. Swinging is sort of a test of a marriage for soundness.

 

[Seth1805]

I would agree this is true. If a marriage has notable problems, swinging will most likely, only make them worse or highlighted or expose other problems in addition. Swinging is sort of a test of a marriage for soundness.

I would hope it is not a test. In our case, I would never enter into this if it was. We appreciate what we have in our marriage life, but recognize things could use some improvement in the bedroom and neither of us consider that grounds for dissolving the things we value in each other.
Yes she wants a black man as a lover and to experience someone well endowed but that is because she has needs in the bedroom I am not fulfilling. Everything else is perfect.

 

[Surburbnwife4u]

Newsweek and CNN have both done articles on the rise of cockholding over the last 20 years. And both claim that the drop in divorice is correspondent to cockholding marriages.

 

[chris john]

This would be interesting to know.

 

[robert_33324]

95% are OK

 

[Cuckold 1968]

Our marriage is much stronger, our sex life is more common and better. We're sorry we did not start this life a lot earlier. In my husband's view, my body and my pussy are so finer if another man fucking me before.

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Damn she is hot.

 

[robert_33324]

Damn she is hot.

Agreed

 

[WillandSusn]

I would hope it is not a test. In our case, I would never enter into this if it was. We appreciate what we have in our marriage life, but recognize things could use some improvement in the bedroom and neither of us consider that grounds for dissolving the things we value in each other.
Yes she wants a black man as a lover and to experience someone well endowed but that is because she has needs in the bedroom I am not fulfilling. Everything else is perfect.

True for many mature married couples today and perhaps an explanation for the rise in cuckholding and people in this lifestyle now. Common " complaint" of women in 40s and 50s ( not enough good sex ). Going with Black men not the Taboo it was and women actually encourage other women to take black lovers. And they do.

 

[GiselaHoll]

Newsweek and CNN have both done articles on the rise of cockholding over the last 20 years. And both claim that the drop in divorice is correspondent to cockholding marriages.

Strangely enough, we learned about about the opposite by CNN. They cited a study by Dan Savage that portrayed that monitored cuckoldry can save marriages. One of the things that convinced us to explore this option.

 

[MarkandMary]

23 plus years in the lifestyle on and off. Not into hardcore Cuckolding, but we have had our moments lol. It works for us because we have a strong marriage and trust. It adds to our fun when we are in the mood to get freaky.

 

[cuck4Beth]

Cuckolding is our sex play. When her black boyfriend is here, my wife takes on a submissive role to him, and I am submissive to both, and his gay slut. It is our fun, our escape from real life demands and pressures. Although we do have some BBC slut wife, sub cuck hubby play-time in between, for most of the time we are just a typical married couple of 40+ years. I am a business exec, and her strong hubby most of the time. What works for us is we have sex names, our alter egos. Most of the people we know are unaware of our sex play and most considered us the happiest married couple they know. Ironically in that group I am the 'stud' because my wife brags to some of the women that in her 60's she is having multiple squirting orgasms. These wives thinks it is me!!!

I would tend to think that quite a few of the really wild posts you see on this site are more fantasy then reality. Even with our years in swinging, and 13 black-only, at times I struggle when I see how intense my wife is with some black men.

 

[poundcake26]

I would tend to think that quite a few of the really wild posts you see on this site are more fantasy then reality.

This. 100% this.

We "get it". Taking this stuff beyond a fantasy isn't for everyone. That being said, once it goes beyond the fantasy for a person or a couple, that person or couple can usually discern whether or not others are living the fantasy or the lifestyle.

 

[cuck4Beth]

This. 100% this.

We "get it". Taking this stuff beyond a fantasy isn't for everyone. That being said, once it goes beyond the fantasy for a person or a couple, that person or couple can quickly discern whether or not others are living the fantasy or the lifestyle.

We also have seen a few couples, especially the husbands, who wanted the fantasy but when reality hit, they could not handle it. we have been involved with a couple of nasty scenes.

 

[poundcake26]

We also have seen a few couples, especially the husbands, who wanted the fantasy but when reality hit, they could not handle it. we have been involved with a couple of nasty scenes.

That possibility always exists. Couples who don't acknowledge it aren't doing themselves any favors.

From day 1, we went into this with an agreement. If either of us think it's time to throw in the towel, then that's that. Our love and respect for one another is far more important than what we do when we're horny.

 

[Surburbnwife4u]

Strangely enough, we learned about about the opposite by CNN. They cited a study by Dan Savage that portrayed that monitored cuckoldry can save marriages. One of the things that convinced us to explore this option.

Yes exactly it's rise has been inline with the declined divorce rate.

 

[cuck4Beth]

That possibility always exists. Couples who don't acknowledge it aren't doing themselves any favors.

From day 1, we went into this with an agreement. If either of us think it's time to throw in the towel, then that's that. Our love and respect for one another is far more important than what we do when we're horny.

Years ago, before going black, back in my sexual prime when I was reasonably endowed, we met a first time couple where hubby wanted to watch his wife with a couple; his wife was bi-curious. But he warned that after one orgasm she was done. Well she and my wife really clicked! And she loved it and loved eating pussy. Well after about a half dozen orgasms and she was going wild eating pussy, her hubby came off while stroking. Then the ******* hit the fan! He called her a whore and demanded she get dress and leave. She was crying, bad scene!

 

[poundcake26]

Yes exactly it's rise has been inline with the declined divorce rate.

I'd really like to see the data that they used and the statistical methods that were employed. Applied mathematics is a dirty sport. With enough data cleansing and a bit of p-hacking, a competent statistician could positively correlate the weight of potatoes grown in Idaho with the declining sales of General Motors vehicles.

Are the two truly connected? Who knows. Does CNN need something edgy to air? Most likely.