This is a loaded question but I will try to clarify why I ask it. When first introduced to the lifestyle and when chatting with a bull for a long time, I was surprised to hear about mishaps involving the cuckold interjecting or directing the action, and pissing off the wife and causing some sour ending to the fun. This particular guy even said after some annoying events the wife asked him privately to start meeting without the cuck.
As a cuckold I have fantasies about what id like to happen. However, it feels to me that it would be more exciting and genuine to not talk about these things at all because it doesn't fit the dynamic. If the bull and wife are enjoying each other as they wish then I get to see a real experience.
Every dynamic is different I understand but again I had a bull ask me what he wanted to see me do and I started thinking more about all this. To me it devalues the experience if it's choreographed by me.
As a cuckold I have fantasies about what id like to happen. However, it feels to me that it would be more exciting and genuine to not talk about these things at all because it doesn't fit the dynamic. If the bull and wife are enjoying each other as they wish then I get to see a real experience.
Every dynamic is different I understand but again I had a bull ask me what he wanted to see me do and I started thinking more about all this. To me it devalues the experience if it's choreographed by me.