I was coming from security not so much from looks
How chastity can really help
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. Things change and women are more active sexually. The terms slut and whore have taken on positive conotations given that women are enjoying more sex partners today. The expansion of the lifestyle has added more black sex partners for couples and women which has also added some obsolesence to these terms. Being slutty and whoring with black sex partners is becoming the norm. Especially as more wives take charge sexually and cage their white husbands while enjoying their black bulls.That is very true. Its amazing. Back a few years ago in my mid 20's even when single I enjoyed the odd one night stand. But very rarely did this happen. I tended to have steady relationships and looked down my nose at women who would act slutty. Before starting the lifestyle Michael would call me "his dirty slut", technically I was but I reacted angrily to his categorisation of me. But since entering this lifestyle I have been a total slut but certainly not for Michael. I am still almost shocked about the transition we have managed in 2 yrs. We went from having sex at least once a day on avg to no sexual contact whatever. When Michael took this video of me teasing his little cage, just after his balls fell through the cage shrinkage so now I need a smaller one. But he was beginning to tell me he was very close to orgasm and that he had completely forgotten what having sex feels like. I doesn't recall what it's like to have pussy. That turned me on and when he fell through the cage I told him that the fact that happened solidified my decision to never allow him penetration again. I told him that whilst tugging him and he began to leak precome so I stopped. Made him sit on his hands so I could masturbate with a vibrator. I let him watch while he leaked so much precome. But I am glad I teased him. Keeps it fresh although he now knows he won't fuck me ever again. Thursday it's his birthday. So I may let him orgasm and remove his cage to do it..
J
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Jamie, as a cuck, I know exactly how he feels when you tease him. My wife loves to do this to me (minus the cage) and it is so incredibly hot. I bet a million dollars he was ready to cum, especially with your hand on his cock. As soon as my wife touches mine, I am ready to explode.That is very true. Its amazing. Back a few years ago in my mid 20's even when single I enjoyed the odd one night stand. But very rarely did this happen. I tended to have steady relationships and looked down my nose at women who would act slutty. Before starting the lifestyle Michael would call me "his dirty slut", technically I was but I reacted angrily to his categorisation of me. But since entering this lifestyle I have been a total slut but certainly not for Michael. I am still almost shocked about the transition we have managed in 2 yrs. We went from having sex at least once a day on avg to no sexual contact whatever. When Michael took this video of me teasing his little cage, just after his balls fell through the cage shrinkage so now I need a smaller one. But he was beginning to tell me he was very close to orgasm and that he had completely forgotten what having sex feels like. I doesn't recall what it's like to have pussy. That turned me on and when he fell through the cage I told him that the fact that happened solidified my decision to never allow him penetration again. I told him that whilst tugging him and he began to leak precome so I stopped. Made him sit on his hands so I could masturbate with a vibrator. I let him watch while he leaked so much precome. But I am glad I teased him. Keeps it fresh although he now knows he won't fuck me ever again. Thursday it's his birthday. So I may let him orgasm and remove his cage to do it.
J
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. Very Good. Enjoy.Well I'm just glad I decided to play with his dicklet the other night otherwise I may not have noticed. If I had not have found out he may well have jerked off a dozen times by now lol.
When he gets home from the gym etc and shower I always wait for him to make sure as soon as he gets out I lock him up again but you can't really tell on a cursory inspection of he needs a smaller cage. Clearly he does so he is going down another size. The smaller he gets the more certain he becomes to knowing the cage is permanent. Seeing the picture and video I just uploaded is amazing to see just how small he is now. Dan is 3 times the length of that cage and at least twice thicker. I have never felt so filled and Michael now accepts that he was never going to be able to compete with the likes of Dan and Gregg. But it did take me a little time to stretch out.
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. Susan teases alot. Nibbles on the head of my SWC. Then stops just when I am ready to cum. Then she smiles and goes away leaving me at the edge.
Oh no. His birthday is tomorrow not today. I have already ordered a gift but I'm wondering what else a cuckold should get on his birthday. His new cage is coming soon.
get him a prince albert
. Videos of you and your bulls. Always a great gift for lifestyle husbands.
. Depends on how submissive Michael has become in this lifestyle.
Hi,
These are tough questions because I can only speak for myself and Michael. For us it was not a completely easy decision. It certainly wasnt organic and it took a long time to discuss and for me to learn about the lifestyle. Ours did not manifest in the form of a kink. When back in the states, before i met Michael, I had experience with a few black guys in college. michael did not learn that until far later in our relationship. We had watched some porn and one of the scenes was a cuck type deal with 3 big guys and i got very very wound up and ended up telling michael about my experiences. I guess the califnornian in me opened up and he then began discussing teease and denial. We did that for a while and it was very hot, but then he wanted or suggested we take it forward. Your wife will think that you maybe cheating on her, she may question your comittment and your love for her. She may think that you are suggesting cheating so you can end the relationship, like you are making an excuse. I had all of these problems and it took nearly 2 yrs of discussion and to be frank, arguing.
Each couple is different and then I decided to at least consider this after learning that Michael did love me vbery much and he was just giving into a kink.
I have detailed this before so wont go into now, but we decided to try it as long as I controlled the way the lifestyle played out. If I wanted out early on that would be what happened. Yes it went the completely other direction but that is his fault not mine. Don't rush her and if you love her and she does not want to try it, dont push her. Not everyone is cut out for this and even though so many guys on this site desire a permanent lock and key the fantasy isnt the same as the real world and i think many guys here would not be able to handle it. So consider things, very very carefully.
J
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For Michael it's two jerks and a squirt. If that. Tuesday was the first time I had actually seen fuck years live. He was absolutely praying for orgasm. I may give him a choice tomorrow for his birthday. He can either watch me fuck on the weekend caged or he can jerk off in the bathroom after bathing his caged dick in numbing cream. In not going to make it easy for him. I'm not allowing him to throw away weeks of build up. But the thought of him being unlocked and jerking off that little thing is offensive to me.
J
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I definitely can relate to 2 jerks and a squirt. Same here. I love that you will are considering giving him a choice. It would be nice since it is his birthday. If I were lucky enough to be him, I would choose the cage and watching you fuck on the weekend. I'm a little different in that I can cum without touching myself at times so I would be hoping on that with this choice. I'm very interested to know what he will choose.
. Actually not unusal today for couples to seek new experiences after some years in marraige. Lifestyle offers new experiences. Some women see the cage as the negotiation for her going black. There are others.
He will choose to watch I think because Jess is coming too. He does fancy Jess and seeing her and me together will cause him cuckold tears. I don't strip him naked to watch like some but I let him wear boxers. White ones so I can see his dick leaking. When I am involved in group sex he will leak for the whole time. But he may opt for an orgasm. He will need to be caged and use a vibrator.
J
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. Jess ? Always a new dimension when other women are present too. Do remove the shorts and have him exposed too the white men cuckhold husbands should always be naked in front of the other women. Later , @ the mall or the grocery , its always special when she has seen him maked and he has seen her naked with BBC. This always creates special relationships with these friends. There is an honesty that doesnt exist between most people.
WOW, the two of you ? That is incredible. Does your bull do both of you or are there going to be more than one bull ? When will it be ?
The downside is that being in chastity long term causes the penis to shrink or so I’ve read. Correct me if that’s not true.So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.
About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.
Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.
After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.
And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.
The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.
My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that.. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.
Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience!
Im not in a cage so I am not sure if it causes shrinkage but I know my wee has shrunk, I assume from non-use. Maybe some due to age ?
SweetHCouple19
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Surfing the web tells that shrinking may occur, but is not permanent. For us, caging gives the wife control about a husband who is (too) dominant outside the bedroom. We are starting to establish a system of reward and punishment (allowance to masturbate/cum for him before sleeping only after having behaved well during the day). And yes, it's a fetish to show how small dickletts should be treated
, at least if there is a well-endowed lover available for the wife at least 1-3 times a week.I travel for work and my wife said she thought that making me wear a cage while I am traveling and she has the key so that I can't even masturbate would be thrilling for her. Still considering itSurfing the web tells that shrinking may occur, but is not permanent. For us, caging gives the wife control about a husband who is (too) dominant outside the bedroom. We are starting to establish a system of reward and punishment (allowance to masturbate/cum for him before sleeping only after having behaved well during the day). And yes, it's a fetish to show how small dickletts should be treated
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