I am starting to regret this. Locked and frustrated.

I introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding in 2022 and since then our marriage has taken quite a turn. While hesitant at first she came to appreciate the joy of messing around with well hung guys knowing I enjoy it too quick. She has a regular boyfriend since last summer and this is where my problems started. I really enjoyed him and her having a good chemistry going and that he fucks her just like she wants it. Their relationship intensified and around last Autumn they where already meeting on daily base. Meaning he’d come over straight after work acting like he owned the place and then fucking my wife. In the beginning I was allowed to watch and sometimes interact but around that time last year he became more dominant and oftentimes would tell me to do stuff while they would fuck. My wife and I had talked about chastity before the regular thing with her boyfriend even started and she had told him about it at some point. Last October he told me he wanted me locked for Locktober and I agreed because it turned me on. It was an intense experience. My wife loved it instantly. Unfortunately for me it did not really end with October. Apart from some breaks around last Xmas and early January I have pretty much been locked constantly. Also I am rarely ever present when they fuck. Usually just ordered to do stuff and leave them alone. I get short releases at times but that’s it. My wife loves the chastity and she also enjoys her boyfriend a lot. I told her I’d like to end chastity and that I would like her to see him less. She reacted angry at first. Later she told me she understood but asked me to reconsider and give it time until end of this year and not to make a hasty decision. I am stuck in a dilemma where I actually got what I wanted but now I do not enjoy. At least not all the time. But I also feel that there are just two options now. Go with it or end it all. Have other cucks experienced similar situations?

introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding in 2022 and since then our marriage has taken quite a turn. While hesitant at first she came to appreciate the joy of messing around with well hung guys knowing I enjoy it too quick. She has a regular boyfriend since last summer and this is where my problems started. I really enjoyed him and her having a good chemistry going and that he fucks her just like she wants it. Their relationship intensified and around last Autumn they where already meeting on daily base. Meaning he’d come over straight after work acting like he owned the place and then fucking my wife. In the beginning I was allowed to watch and sometimes interact but around that time last year he became more dominant and oftentimes would tell me to do stuff while they would fuck. My wife and I had talked about chastity before the regular thing with her boyfriend even started and she had told him about it at some point. Last October he told me he wanted me locked for Locktober and I agreed because it turned me on. It was an intense experience. My wife loved it instantly. Unfortunately for me it did not really end with October. Apart from some breaks around last Xmas and early January I have pretty much been locked constantly. Also I am rarely ever present when they fuck. Usually just ordered to do stuff and leave them alone. I get short releases at times but that’s it. My wife loves the chastity and she also enjoys her boyfriend a lot. I told her I’d like to end chastity and that I would like her to see him less. She reacted angry at first. Later she told me she understood but asked me to reconsider and give it time until end of this year and not to make a hasty decision. I am stuck in a dilemma where I actually got what I wanted but now I do not enjoy. At least not all the time. But I also feel that there are just two options now. Go with it or end it all. Have other cucks experienced similar situations?
Dear Sir
I have an advice that you may find bizarre but please take it into consideration Hot wives say that real training begins when a cuckold wants it to end and that’s when hot wives start enjoying it the most It looks like you have reached a breaking point in your relationship but it is not what it seems Not all hot wives are the same Some enjoy cuckolding only when their husbands enjoy it even more but some are really sadistic dominatrixes who enjoy cuckolding the most only when their husbands leave their comfort zone and no longer enjoy it but on the contrary feel hurt insulted humiliated abandoned and betrayed and ignored This is the biggest part of the thrill for them It looks like your hot wife no longer cares about you and if it were true any cuckold would leave her including me All of us cuckolds enjoy cuckolding only if our wives love us and are deeply devoted to us However love and being in love are not the same We cuckolds enjoy our hot wives being in love with their bulls as long as they love only us If this is no longer true for your hot wife then your marriage is dead However I believe the opposite is the truth Your marriage reached a new exciting stage for your hot wife when she derives happiness from your unhappiness If she really didn’t care about you she wouldn’t care about your unhappiness and would not enjoy it The fact that she enjoys torturing you physically and psychologically means she still loves you otherwise she would not care and would simply leave you for her bull However this is clearly not the case She wants to keep you in her relationship with her bull and if she no longer cared about you she would not want you in her relationships with her bull in any role even in the role of a frustrated and ignored cuckold Your cuckold marriage is as strong as ever it just reached a new stage Please don’t ruin your beautiful cuckold marriage Enjoy keeping your hot wife in extasy with your frustrations and unhappiness When you do it for her she will love you all the more for it more than her bull because he would never do this for her and she knows it and her true love is for you alone but her passion is for him All of us cuckolds enjoy it and you will learn to enjoy it too
I introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding in 2022 and since then our marriage has taken quite a turn. While hesitant at first she came to appreciate the joy of messing around with well hung guys knowing I enjoy it too quick. She has a regular boyfriend since last summer and this is where my problems started. I really enjoyed him and her having a good chemistry going and that he fucks her just like she wants it. Their relationship intensified and around last Autumn they where already meeting on daily base. Meaning he’d come over straight after work acting like he owned the place and then fucking my wife. In the beginning I was allowed to watch and sometimes interact but around that time last year he became more dominant and oftentimes would tell me to do stuff while they would fuck. My wife and I had talked about chastity before the regular thing with her boyfriend even started and she had told him about it at some point. Last October he told me he wanted me locked for Locktober and I agreed because it turned me on. It was an intense experience. My wife loved it instantly. Unfortunately for me it did not really end with October. Apart from some breaks around last Xmas and early January I have pretty much been locked constantly. Also I am rarely ever present when they fuck. Usually just ordered to do stuff and leave them alone. I get short releases at times but that’s it. My wife loves the chastity and she also enjoys her boyfriend a lot. I told her I’d like to end chastity and that I would like her to see him less. She reacted angry at first. Later she told me she understood but asked me to reconsider and give it time until end of this year and not to make a hasty decision. I am stuck in a dilemma where I actually got what I wanted but now I do not enjoy. At least not all the time. But I also feel that there are just two options now. Go with it or end it all. Have other cucks experienced similar situations?
 
Dear Sir
I have an advice that you may find bizarre but please take it into consideration Hot wives say that real training begins when a cuckold wants it to end and that’s when hot wives start enjoying it the most It looks like you have reached a breaking point in your relationship but it is not what it seems Not all hot wives are the same Some enjoy cuckolding only when their husbands enjoy it even more but some are really sadistic dominatrixes who enjoy cuckolding the most only when their husbands leave their comfort zone and no longer enjoy it but on the contrary feel hurt insulted humiliated abandoned and betrayed and ignored This is the biggest part of the thrill for them It looks like your hot wife no longer cares about you and if it were true any cuckold would leave her including me All of us cuckolds enjoy cuckolding only if our wives love us and are deeply devoted to us However love and being in love are not the same We cuckolds enjoy our hot wives being in love with their bulls as long as they love only us If this is no longer true for your hot wife then your marriage is dead However I believe the opposite is the truth Your marriage reached a new exciting stage for your hot wife when she derives happiness from your unhappiness If she really didn’t care about you she wouldn’t care about your unhappiness and would not enjoy it The fact that she enjoys torturing you physically and psychologically means she still loves you otherwise she would not care and would simply leave you for her bull However this is clearly not the case She wants to keep you in her relationship with her bull and if she no longer cared about you she would not want you in her relationships with her bull in any role even in the role of a frustrated and ignored cuckold Your cuckold marriage is as strong as ever it just reached a new stage Please don’t ruin your beautiful cuckold marriage Enjoy keeping your hot wife in extasy with your frustrations and unhappiness When you do it for her she will love you all the more for it more than her bull because he would never do this for her and she knows it and her true love is for you alone but her passion is for him All of us cuckolds enjoy it and you will learn to enjoy it too
You have opened my eyes to a new cuckold, thank you, I have never looked at a relationship from this side.

Cuckold is a team game, first the husband helps his wife to start playing, then the wife leads her husband in this game
 
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You have opened my eyes to a new cuckold, thank you, I have never looked at a relationship from this side.
Thank you I really appreciate it I am very glad about it and it’s very important to me I wish Copy would give me the same answer I really want to save his cuckold marriage I love doing it as a psychologist with a scientific degree in the field and as a cuckold who believes that cuckold marriage is much more beautiful trusting and loving than regular marriage It breaks my sensitive heart when I see cuckold marriage collapse not because love is over but because of misunderstanding what cuckold marriage is about
 
I introduced my wife to the world of cuckolding in 2022 and since then our marriage has taken quite a turn. While hesitant at first she came to appreciate the joy of messing around with well hung guys knowing I enjoy it too quick. She has a regular boyfriend since last summer and this is where my problems started. I really enjoyed him and her having a good chemistry going and that he fucks her just like she wants it. Their relationship intensified and around last Autumn they where already meeting on daily base. Meaning he’d come over straight after work acting like he owned the place and then fucking my wife. In the beginning I was allowed to watch and sometimes interact but around that time last year he became more dominant and oftentimes would tell me to do stuff while they would fuck. My wife and I had talked about chastity before the regular thing with her boyfriend even started and she had told him about it at some point. Last October he told me he wanted me locked for Locktober and I agreed because it turned me on. It was an intense experience. My wife loved it instantly. Unfortunately for me it did not really end with October. Apart from some breaks around last Xmas and early January I have pretty much been locked constantly. Also I am rarely ever present when they fuck. Usually just ordered to do stuff and leave them alone. I get short releases at times but that’s it. My wife loves the chastity and she also enjoys her boyfriend a lot. I told her I’d like to end chastity and that I would like her to see him less. She reacted angry at first. Later she told me she understood but asked me to reconsider and give it time until end of this year and not to make a hasty decision. I am stuck in a dilemma where I actually got what I wanted but now I do not enjoy. At least not all the time. But I also feel that there are just two options now. Go with it or end it all. Have other cucks experienced similar situations?
Enjoy your new life.....things change.
 
You absolutely shouldn't have to do anything you don't want. You are allowed to say stop at any moment. It should make you both happy, if it doesn't something has to change, it's up to you both how and how much.
As advised above above i also recommend to (at least) lose the chastity, asap. It will give you some control back over your own body (and masturbate when you want, this also helps with releasing tension).
As for your partner, you wrote she understood, that's very good. Give her a chance to get used to the idea and ask her how long she needs to cut down/stop. Make the decision to stay or leave then, based on if you can live with what she wants. You are the boss of your own life.
 
Dear Sir
I have an advice that you may find bizarre but please take it into consideration Hot wives say that real training begins when a cuckold wants it to end and that’s when hot wives start enjoying it the most It looks like you have reached a breaking point in your relationship but it is not what it seems Not all hot wives are the same Some enjoy cuckolding only when their husbands enjoy it even more but some are really sadistic dominatrixes who enjoy cuckolding the most only when their husbands leave their comfort zone and no longer enjoy it but on the contrary feel hurt insulted humiliated abandoned and betrayed and ignored This is the biggest part of the thrill for them It looks like your hot wife no longer cares about you and if it were true any cuckold would leave her including me All of us cuckolds enjoy cuckolding only if our wives love us and are deeply devoted to us However love and being in love are not the same We cuckolds enjoy our hot wives being in love with their bulls as long as they love only us If this is no longer true for your hot wife then your marriage is dead However I believe the opposite is the truth Your marriage reached a new exciting stage for your hot wife when she derives happiness from your unhappiness If she really didn’t care about you she wouldn’t care about your unhappiness and would not enjoy it The fact that she enjoys torturing you physically and psychologically means she still loves you otherwise she would not care and would simply leave you for her bull However this is clearly not the case She wants to keep you in her relationship with her bull and if she no longer cared about you she would not want you in her relationships with her bull in any role even in the role of a frustrated and ignored cuckold Your cuckold marriage is as strong as ever it just reached a new stage Please don’t ruin your beautiful cuckold marriage Enjoy keeping your hot wife in extasy with your frustrations and unhappiness When you do it for her she will love you all the more for it more than her bull because he would never do this for her and she knows it and her true love is for you alone but her passion is for him All of us cuckolds enjoy it and you will learn to enjoy it too
Dear Sir
It could be that your hot wife lost all her feelings for you and you are just a sex toy for her to increase her pleasure with her bull No woman has any feelings for a dildo no matter how much pleasure it gives her and a dildo for her will always be it and never he In this case nearly all cuckolds would leave hurt offended or outraged including me However some cuckolds enjoy this extreme humiliation and can leave with it for decades deriving their main kink from it Please give it some time before deciding you are not one of them After a few years you may learn to enjoy it and live the rest of your life in happiness and making your hot wife happy and deriving happiness from it too I understand you are offended at this point but in a few years this offense may turn into exhilaration Some cuckolds say it feels beyond thrilling being just sex toys for their wives
 
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