At the end, whether the females preference is single or married, it is about honesty, respect and chemistry with everyone. Just as you have married men trying to slip by as single, females have done the same. The results can be just as dramatic with either due to lack of honesty. For me I prefer the married woman or couple and if I don't meet the husband at least once I am somewhat hesitant about the whole situation. If one is being ****** to accept the desires of the other that can also lead to drama down the road. He or she may be accepting at first but if they see their wife having too much fun the jealousy can raise it's ugly head. Just always remember before getting started …..Have an honest and open discussion about what can be expected and accepted be it short or long term.