Have you ever felt, do you feel insecure about your dick size?

I’ve often felt unsatisfied with my size. It’s like I used to hear when I was younger, ‘Nick, a man can get by with a wooden leg, a glass eye, or a hook but there’s just no substitute for a big dick. I guess you’re just out of luck.’

Because I’m small I did my best to turn it into an advantage and embrace small penis humiliation. I get off on being small now.

My wife (and any other woman I’ve been intimate with) never complained. They said it was ‘just right.’ I choose to believe that. But a few times they have referred to it as ‘cute.’ That seemed like a back handed compliment and contributed to my SPH fetish.
 
Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.
Absolutely no problem with my Dick size. Never ever have I had a single complaint. Since I was 15 years old I have had my share of pussy.
 
When I look at it, I find it small and the same when I take photo from multiple angles.
Some say that It's because we look at our dick from top but even in pics I find it small so... I think it's on my mind...
 
Your saying as long as you have 6 inches and know how to use it you are good. But the average erect penis in the US is a little above 5 inches. And I only hit 5 inches on a good day I try to cope with sph and cuckolding fetish but the reality is ok I will never please a woman and 99.99999% don’t find cuckolding or femdom stuff attractive so I will just end up alone.
Your going to be alone because you havew decided that. Your confidence level is wrapped up in your dick. Making love is a lot more than drilling some girl. Learn how to make love to a girl and you'll be golden forever. That and being a gentelman. And being a gentelman takes confidence which I see as your biggest problem not the size of your dickl.
 
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My dick is 7" bone pressed and 6" girth but it looks very small and I think it is why my ex gf go black now. I'm 24 years old
Because you decided it looks small and your visual sample is all over sized dicks- 1 on 10,000
 
Your going to be alone because you havew decided that. Yopur confidence level is awrapped up in your dick. Making love is a lot more than drilling some girel. Learn how to make love to a girl and you'll be golden forever. that and being a gentelman. And being a gentelman talkes confidence which I see as your biggest problem not the sixe of your dickl.
Well said! And I am going to repeat myself for the umpteenth time, "your dick does not and should not define you." You can never please every woman. And yes, I started the thread, but it's not because of my issue or lack of confidence, it was to spark a dialog, which it did. But, again, there are guys with a baby's arm that can't satisfy women because that is all they rely on. Sure there are size queens out there, and that's fine, let those third leg guys deal with that. Stick to your lane, deal with the rejection because it will happen. Take that and fuel your confidence. Bottom line, you define how you want your life to be.
 
Being in the lifestyle and being on this site i used to say to myself i guess if you aren't 9 - 13" you aren't getting nothing on this site or in the lifestyle. Overtime i stopped caring what was wanted because if all you have is 11" inches but you don't care of yourself, you don't smell good, you can't hold a conversation, you make the husband feel like he isn't wanted there at all, you can't read the room, etc

I bring way more to the table than just a dick and it's way more about it then just that.
 
I admit I was very self conscious in my early years because I knew that most guys were much bigger than me. Two things changed, first I definitely had a 'growth spurt' in my mid twenties when my cock definitely got bigger. Secondly I learnt about 'growers and showers'. How some men are small when flaccid but get much thicker and longer when erect. That's me, so now when nude with other guys in changing rooms i'm not so embarrassed.
 
There are plenty of guys in the adult industry that have an average size cocks but they have confidence and they perform well and that's all that counts at the end of the day is how you use what you got! 👍
I get what your saying, but I get such a fabulous feeling of being full when fucked by a big dick, and average men just cant bring this, no matter what they try.
So for some its all important to have a well mounted lover, sex with my husband is lovely but he cant fill me like I want, anything less than say 8" and girthy then I wouldnt bother to meet, sorry guys but why would I cuckold my husband for Mr Average when I can have my average hubby?

I think alot of men get upset with this mindset, but after years of being messed about by so called bulls, not turning up or tuning up and they are clearly not as described! I feel I have the right to be picky with who I give my precious time and body to, not looking for a new husband either, we are all players here in a big meat market. Kisses
 
I get what your saying, but I get such a fabulous feeling of being full when fucked by a big dick, and average men just cant bring this, no matter what they try.
So for some its all important to have a well mounted lover, sex with my husband is lovely but he cant fill me like I want, anything less than say 8" and girthy then I wouldnt bother to meet, sorry guys but why would I cuckold my husband for Mr Average when I can have my average hubby?

I think alot of men get upset with this mindset, but after years of being messed about by so called bulls, not turning up or tuning up and they are clearly not as described! I feel I have the right to be picky with who I give my precious time and body to, not looking for a new husband either, we are all players here in a big meat market. Kisses
Encouraging the average guys and showing them some empathy is the nice thing to do!
 
He's not saying that's what your post was doing or did, he is saying that is what his post was for.
No he isn't, if he was he wouldn't have added the exclamation mark. he didn't digest what I was saying, just jumped to a conclusion, anyway he has a forum here too, I'm sure he can defend himself.
 
Women now days make you feel insecure all they talk is about the size and how they cum on a huge dick and that small all they feel is a tickel
Now days many women want to feel a man make them squirt and with a small dick that will never happen
 
very much so. I warned her before we had sex for the first time that i wasnt that big (3.5-4") and she tried to be comforting and told me it was ok, the big ones hurt etc, but I could tell when i pulled my pants down and she saw it, she was disappointed.
 
In my youth I was a bit insecure about my dick size because of porn. After having slept with a few women though and doing my own research, I realized I’m actually in the top percentage category with my 8+” dick.
If anything, it makes it a challenge to find big cocks for my wife.
 
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