Has your wife cheated before?

The key is communication If its behind the others back feelings, love, trust gone.
If both are aware its all equal,
But that cheepens the sex, Ex prob. was zenophillia attracted to stangers, even when she was hookin up. Then on she cut me out for thrill of getting caught.
 
cltblackdick45 said:
I think I’d like to meet her
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I would love to see that also. Says shes had bwc when younger, I said could you take one size of Blackzilla she smiled little laugh never said. That led to her saying a big guy over I'll show you, that started sharing, The guy was supposedly hung, She laughed next day said he was 8.5 and thick, I recorded it. Then moved on to personals and got her set up with was bigger, I'record them a few had her hollering.
But mention bbc says oh I never have, But her pussy say yes, Don't think she wants me to know. I'll check media and show her what she can have. If not any send few.
 
My wife cheated on me with a black co-worker several years ago. I was initially shocked and hurt but those feelings quickly melted away as I found that I was more turned on than anything else. I knew about it and didn't say anything for a couple months. By the time I actually confronted her about it, the affair was ending on its own.

Unfortunately it's not something she has repeated since and my wife doesn't really have any interest in the lifestyle despite having my blessing.
 
NYCuck said:
My wife cheated on me with a black co-worker several years ago. I was initially shocked and hurt but those feelings quickly melted away as I found that I was more turned on than anything else. I knew about it and didn't say anything for a couple months. By the time I actually confronted her about it, the affair was ending on its own.

Unfortunately it's not something she has repeated since and my wife doesn't really have any interest in the lifestyle despite having my blessing.
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Back then it was, oh I love never do it again, years later found out she was seeing him for 6 yrs or more but she cheated on him and me 25 30 different men, She divorced me and called 10 times a day for years. now 10 years I still get text wanting come over.
 
Yes she cheated with a black man. I didn't care that he was black, it was the secrecy that was the hard part.
After a couple years or so. The pain went away, but the curiosity and mentality of her riding a BBC was definitely enough to turn me on and keep me turned on. It lead me to wanting to be a cuck beta male. Which i now feel to be.
I even caged myself while we were separated, because I truly wanted it. So I would train myself to accept being pssy free.
Unfortunately the memory and pain seemed to be too much for her, as she won't support the ides I've presented to her about being a QOS. Or even just a hotwife.
 
My first wife and I married in our early 20’s. She worked at a hospital and there was a lot of stuff going on between the people that work there. It not just the nurse's. She had gotten friendly with a girl our age and they got to talking about sex and stuff somewhere along the way. Her friend shared that her and her boyfriend or husband, I’m not sure all these years later, had a video collection of an adult nature. She talked to my wife about the things they did together as they watched he videos. My wife didn’t share as much detail with me but I was getting the gist of what was happening. Apparently my wife showed interest or it was a lead up to her being invited to hang out with them one Saturday night. She didn’t sneak behind my back but let me know what was possible if she were to hang out with them. I didn’t know what a cuckold was then but that couple basically got my wife to cuckold me.
My problem was though the whole thing was very exciting I was not mature enough to handle all the emotions that grew and grew within me as I waited for hours and hours for her to come home. I didn’t respond correctly when she came home. The way my emotions were all over the place if she would have come home 30 minutes earlier or later I could have been in a state of complete arousal. But in the moment I reacted like a jealous brat. In one sentence I ruined it for myself.
So I got nothing and she had a threesome and I’m sure a wonderful experience up until she got home.
I was better prepared some years later when another girlfriend cucked me and I handled my side much better. That’s another story.
 
James227 said:
Many married men living in modern marriage are already happy. Wives already have sex with many men, but the husband is aware of it. But the dream of many married men who text me is to be cheated on by their wife. Many married men don't consider it cheating when their partner has sex with their knowledge. But what they really want is for their wives to have sex without their knowledge.

I would like to ask those who are living in modern marriage or other married men. Have you caught your wife cheating on you before? What did you feel?
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No, she never cheated on me. Cuckolding its not cheating, its a lifestyle and it is a choice, all parties know and understand what is happening, there is no sense in cheating.
 
one2submit said:
My first wife and I married in our early 20’s. She worked at a hospital and there was a lot of stuff going on between the people that work there. It not just the nurse's. She had gotten friendly with a girl our age and they got to talking about sex and stuff somewhere along the way. Her friend shared that her and her boyfriend or husband, I’m not sure all these years later, had a video collection of an adult nature. She talked to my wife about the things they did together as they watched he videos. My wife didn’t share as much detail with me but I was getting the gist of what was happening. Apparently my wife showed interest or it was a lead up to her being invited to hang out with them one Saturday night. She didn’t sneak behind my back but let me know what was possible if she were to hang out with them. I didn’t know what a cuckold was then but that couple basically got my wife to cuckold me.
My problem was though the whole thing was very exciting I was not mature enough to handle all the emotions that grew and grew within me as I waited for hours and hours for her to come home. I didn’t respond correctly when she came home. The way my emotions were all over the place if she would have come home 30 minutes earlier or later I could have been in a state of complete arousal. But in the moment I reacted like a jealous brat. In one sentence I ruined it for myself.
So I got nothing and she had a threesome and I’m sure a wonderful experience up until she got home.
I was better prepared some years later when another girlfriend cucked me and I handled my side much better. That’s another story.
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Your story sounds nearly identical to mine. In our early 20s, my first wife also worked at a hospital. But she had a friend she had grown up with that had a black boyfriend. I used to work a lot of overtime-overnight shifts to earn and save money to buy a house. My wife would tell me that she was going over to Diane's to hang out when I was working Saturday nights. One Saturday night Diane's boyfriend brought a buddy along and took the girls to an adult theater. Afterward they brought the girls back and found it hot to fuck both of them. Seems my wife was very receptive to the buddy's black cock. I had no idea this was going on. I only knew that my wife was hanging out Saturday nights with her friend. She got pregnant by him and fell in love with him. She confessed the whole thing to me but then said that she would rather live with her own new black boyfriend. Sex with affectionate black men can become destructive to white marriages.
 
Maury said:
Your story sounds nearly identical to mine. In our early 20s, my first wife also worked at a hospital. But she had a friend she had grown up with that had a black boyfriend. I used to work a lot of overtime-overnight shifts to earn and save money to buy a house. My wife would tell me that she was going over to Diane's to hang out when I was working Saturday nights. One Saturday night Diane's boyfriend brought a buddy along and took the girls to an adult theater. Afterward they brought the girls back and found it hot to fuck both of them. Seems my wife was very receptive to the buddy's black cock. I had no idea this was going on. I only knew that my wife was hanging out Saturday nights with her friend. She got pregnant by him and fell in love with him. She confessed the whole thing to me but then said that she would rather live with her own new black boyfriend. Sex with affectionate black men can become destructive to white marriages.
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It definitely started similar but went a different path. My next major relationship was with a mid 20’s woman that went to college later rather than right out of school. She was a very sexy lady that not only drew the attention of most guys but many girls as well. She took a theater class and when they had to pair up and pick a scene to do in class a good looking 20 yr old guy asked her to work with him. He had a scene already in mind. It turns out that scene included a kiss. But that was just the beginning of what all happened with the theater friends she ended up getting to know.
 
one2submit said:
My first wife and I married in our early 20’s. She worked at a hospital and there was a lot of stuff going on between the people that work there. It not just the nurse's. She had gotten friendly with a girl our age and they got to talking about sex and stuff somewhere along the way. Her friend shared that her and her boyfriend or husband, I’m not sure all these years later, had a video collection of an adult nature. She talked to my wife about the things they did together as they watched he videos. My wife didn’t share as much detail with me but I was getting the gist of what was happening. Apparently my wife showed interest or it was a lead up to her being invited to hang out with them one Saturday night. She didn’t sneak behind my back but let me know what was possible if she were to hang out with them. I didn’t know what a cuckold was then but that couple basically got my wife to cuckold me.
My problem was though the whole thing was very exciting I was not mature enough to handle all the emotions that grew and grew within me as I waited for hours and hours for her to come home. I didn’t respond correctly when she came home. The way my emotions were all over the place if she would have come home 30 minutes earlier or later I could have been in a state of complete arousal. But in the moment I reacted like a jealous brat. In one sentence I ruined it for myself.
So I got nothing and she had a threesome and I’m sure a wonderful experience up until she got home.
I was better prepared some years later when another girlfriend cucked me and I handled my side much better. That’s another story.
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I completely understand....fortunately I didn't find out about my wife's cheating before I was mature enough to handle it. Even so it too some adjustment before 100% acceptance.
 
Highlife110 said:
Yes per my definition, maybe or probably per the standard definition. I say yes per my definition because I caught the "emotional" affair, which for me is much worse than physical. I don't really care if she'd want to be physical with someone else, though I wouldn't have liked it in this context.

Would have been like 6 years ago now. She was getting more distant. I had been really busy at work for a couple months, but when a nothing fight turned into "I might go to my parents for a couple days" I figured there had to be more at play than my work. She has an iPhone and was logged in on her iPad too, so her apple to apple texts synced to the iPad. I snooped and learned she had lied to me about one coworker inparticular being at the bar on several occasions she had gone out with colleagues (but could confirm she actually was "out", she just left this guy out as an attendee). I snooped through her phone to fill in some gaps for the non-Apple to Apple texts and called her out.

That coworker had actually been transferred to a different, but still close by, location some months prior. I told her I didn't want her talking to him outside of work reasons if they were in the same spot. She thought I'd snooped through her phone so had no clue on the iPad. I don't remember the timeline, maybe a couple weeks or a month, but soon they were texting again. It was too flirty for my liking but not overtly so where I'd be 100% they were fucking. Over the course of a couple weeks it became more and more frequent as we were further from our blowup when I called her out. It all kind of culminated when one day I watched, in real time, them make plans to meet up for an early happy hour at like 3 in the afternoon while she was telling me she was running around for work. I even called while I knew they were together and she stepped out to keep the lie up.

Once I called her out and basically put divorce on the table it ended. I genuinely believe that. She swore they were never physical and she was just enjoying the attention since we'd been together so long. Part of me believes that because it's difficult to know when they would have fucked, I could see she was actually at the bar when she said she was, her patterns didn't really change, etc. At the same time, a lot of effort for two adults to just be flirty. Oh well, at this point it doesn't matter and I've never been given a reason to snoop since.

Like I said, if she wants to fuck someone else she can. But I'd definitely prefer it not to be a coworker. I don't want my wife getting caught up in workplace gossip. She doesn't work anymore so moot point these days.
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Oh I get it. So your wife can only have sex with whoever she physically wants. What bothers you is that it turns into an emotional affair. So what kind of relationship do you have right now? Have you told your wife that the only cause of her discomfort is emotions, that she can only physically have sex with anyone she wants?
 
southFLcuck said:
That's how I got this cuckold fantasy in the first place lol. She said she needed some "space" and went out with one of her old friends. She finally came home around 5am *******. I could tell she let him fuck her. He was a black guy around our age. I was hurt at first but then I was watching a lot of bbc and Latina porn and I started to really like the idea of my wife getting fucked by black men
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I appreciate your understanding of your wife and her black boyfriend. Does your wife still see black men?
 
when she first cheated, i was hurt. Later i mentioned it being ok, but she denied it happening and just went out on her own rather than tell me. i told her it was ok, and turn on, but she wouldnt cuck me. sadly she moved out and on with her life.
 
4hernyc said:
She dated black guy before me and I found out she was fucking him for a year after we started dating. She also cheated twice with black friends and others who I don’t know. She would tell me eventually. not that I wouldn’t find out since other friends were around when she cheated. I would get mad all the time but realized she is going to do it anyway… Years later I said let’s have a three some. She said no and joking while having sex she said ok. I asked guy or girl she said guy I asked who? she told me to pick him. I got a bull told her he was coworker to hang out one night. They hit it off and wow was it amazing to see her like that and ever since I’m hooked and no longer consider it cheating.
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Good Afternoon Queen and respect to your husband sameway. I am CaribbeanCockBullStrong and I'd love to get to know you and provide you with that amazing BBC Experience and show you why my name is CaribbeanCockBullStrong. I am located in Westchester NY and I am interested in meeting with you
 
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