We have discussed this and my wife told me since my best friend isn’t black, i don’t have to worry about this happening. I told her she had a green light and could fuck any of my friends she wanted to so she’s thought about fucking one, me knowing discretely between she and i but him thinking she’s cheating behind my back…..she said the thought of that turns her on and she’d like to see how he reacts around me if she flirted with him after they fucked.