I've found out that most are just playing internet games, I changed all my prefrences to " verified members only" the messages have slowed WAY down, but I still get the guys who are to far away to meet, and want to "chat" or " I travel to your area often" it's the same old BS, it says on my profile ONLY here for real meetings ! I doubt I'll ever meet anyone from here (so why do I keep coming back ?)
And then there's the flip side of that. I had a Black man who started talking to me, wanted to marry me, then I was supposed to call him my little boy.....ummmmm, I'm the sub!?!?!?! Then, to cap it off, I'm supposed to start going to church with him and accept Jesus Christ as my savior.
Waaaaayyyyyy to much Deliverance and a bunch of WTF thrown in for good measure.
On the opposite side of the spectrum there's the pic hunters who get pissed off, when you call them out. I don't mind dirty talk, but I don't share pictures of me with someone I just met, and I definitely draw the line when someone who doesn't know me calls me a fucking bitch and cunt.