Yes, me and hubby’s sex had dropped anyway. The main reason is I genuinely relax, get wet and loosen when I want sex these days so don’t feel him in me as much as I used to. I’ve been trying to become more BBC only. Hubby not touched me this year. And yes he always cleans me out after sex.
You ask ‘how did he initially get the idea to want you to do it’ you mean for me to go with black guys or to lock him up? He always wanted me to go with black guys but I thought it was just fantasy at start of relationship. As far as locking him up, I’ve been interested in feminising him for some time, tried Estrogen etc but didn’t want to cage him, now I think it’s the next obvious step to take. X