Thank you very much for your input. To some guys your input is valuable information to take in and assimilate with everything else we already know about women or want to know about women so thank again.Well each woman is unique and some cum more easily than others. The next thing is the way people enter sex. Most women enter with the mindset of I want to get him off and get off myself. Most men enter with the mindset of I want to get off and hopefully get her off as well. It is nice when both people go in wanting to see the other one orgasm more than themselves. Now let's bring up the issues of it is easier to get men off. Stroke away and chances are he's going to pop. Now given there are some common sense rules like try not to break it. Women have many more ways we enjoy pleasure and not all of them are a race. I know you guys want to get something inside of us as soon and as fast as possible but touching, rubbing, licking, massaging, in the right areas can do wonders way before a finger or dick goes inside anything. And in my final words men, do not be afraid of sex toys. They can be great backup and help you to show your woman a great time. Grab that toy and use it on her and enjoy the feelings you're giving us rather than comparing to a piece of silicone.
The way that I personally approach sex is by saying "I am going to get her off multiple times before I even consider getting off, and hopefully I am the best she's ever had"! I believe in being what I call the "triple threat"! A guy who can get you off with his hands, his mouth, and his manhood!
I have never been with a woman who did not cum, but what's crazy is that I have been with women over the years that had never had an orgasm before we had sex and when that orgasm hit them it was like a whole rebirth experience for them. Our pillow talk afterwards consisted of them asking me "what I did to them" and "why their body was uncontrollably shaking and quivering all over"? What I found really shocking was that some of these women had been married previously and also had children before we met and never had an orgasm.
So for a woman to find a guy that can get you off for hours no matter what he does is rare and can actually make some women lose their minds. I guarantee you that some women can personally testify that there was at least one guy who blew her mind and her back out sexually and drove her a little coocoo over his dick! They may have gotten over him but they were literally driven a little mad by whatever he was doing to her in the bedroom.