According to science and women too about 75% percent of women do not reach orgasm by intercourse! (I say its because black men are only 7% percent of the country. Just joking!)
1.Why do you think this is?
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It is a matter of evolution that penises are getting smaller while vaginas are getting bigger in the long run over many generations which means - for average couplings - less stretching, less filling, less friction and harder for the Woman to reach an orgasm. (Theory) Apart from that...
Mental barriers...
Consciously or not, many Women do not allow themselves to enjoy sexual pleasures as in many societies those are often attributed to men and "male behavior".
At the same time many Women feel like having a higher level of responsibility for taking care of contraceptives and the possible outcome if those fail to work which makes it harder for them to feel at ease - a precondition for achieving a higher level of pleasure essential to allow for an orgasm.
Also many Women are too concerned about and top-heavy on their own physical appearance and how a partner might perceive or "judge" them instead of just letting themselves go and enjoy the sex with a partner.
Physical barriers...
As a consequence of the first "point" above, many Women do not enjoy masturbation or are reluctant doing it at all as they may feel it would be "dirty", sinfull or straight on inappropriate for them.
Without having explored their own bodies and having experienced what feels good and what doesn't, reaching an orgasm is almost impossible to do.
The tip of the clit (clitoral gland) is typically much more sensitive to stimulation than the vagina so it can be questioned if intercourse (alone) is the most natural way for a Woman to receive an orgasm.
Also Women who are used to orgasming from vibrating toys may be "conditioned" to that sort of stimulation a penis cannot provide.
According to science and women too about 75% percent of women do not reach orgasm by intercourse! (I say its because black men are only 7% percent of the country. Just joking!)
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2.in your opinion what do you think can be done about it?
Female sexual pleasure should be upvalued in our societies and slut-shaming banned completely. Upbringing and education of both females and males should account for that.
Sexual education need to include practical lessons for how to use contraceptives correctly but also provide info about what can be done wrong (common mistakes). And the very low numbers of statistical failure (after levelling out mishandling) should be communicated.
The fashion modelling "industry" needs to accept more variety among their female models to include all colors and shapes that we naturally find within the human population. "Lookism" and body-shaming needs to be removed and exchanged for the body-positive insight that different "flavors" will be matched by the different "tastes" that also exist; and men have their inadequacies and issues with their bodies no less than Women have.
Women need to accept their own sexual lust as natural part of their being and for them to actively seek out for satisfaction as normalcy. Exploring their own bodies and experiencing their own sexuality is a natural part of growing up and becoming a Woman.
It is not only adequate but asked for that Women talk with a partner about their sexual likes and dislikes, and that they (Women) teach them (partners) how to best give them pleasure.
Besides... Has anyone else ever questioned why a family name is passed on from a ******* to the ******* while a Woman has to give up hers upon marriage and take her husband's? In many countries' laws nationality (ex sanguine) is determined by the *******'s nationality not the mom's. And all that even though the mom contributes by one half to the genetic set of her offspring
and carries the chi!d to term, while in some cases the assumed ******* is not even the biological ******* of the chi!d.
More power to the Women who contibute greatly to our families, communities and humanity as a whole! ...and their orgasms will come back naturally.
When I have a dual orgasm my strong, athletic legs wrap around his so tight and the feeling is mind blowing. I always say to him, "please don't stop"!!!
