Does your wife, or you if you're the lady, dress in sexy or revealing clothes at normal events or with regular friends ? I know there's a fine line between too revealing depending on where you're going and what other women are wearing.
We have a big socal group of friends. At a house party, pool party, event gathering my wife won't wear some of her clothes we pick out together. Yes some are too revealing but some are very classy showing the right amount of cleavage or a lot of leg.
Sometimes there'll be a wife or two in knock out sexy, but classy tops. Wife will say...I could have worn something similar but were already there and can't go change.
I will say we've seen some very revealing tops that are not sexy at all, more redneck I'd say.
We were at a backyard BBQ gathering, every gal had either a summer dress or shorts and a skimpy top, it was hot outside. I saw lots of underwater as the girls sat back, relaxed and visited while drinking. No big deal. Two of the wives had very thin tank tops, one with no bra, very saggy tits. She didn't look good. Different gal, big tits but no bra, not good.
Wife and I enjoy mfm fun with a guy we know semi regularly, she has no problem getting naked and nasty while he's with us. Out of town she'll wear revealing tops. With friends, no way until she sees another wife but then its too late. It's all good. I guess you don't want to be the first one.