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Do your Husband’s/BF’s change for the best when they don’t cum?
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I have been denied intercourse for nearly 4 months but still was able to relieve pressure once in a while. So I could maintain my sanity. However, this phase was clearly planned in her mind. She was testing my tolerance hence why I'm now locked. Locked. She wears two keys, one on her ankle and another around her neck. It's been nearly 3 weeks without real release except for one wet dream. She is more horny & sexual that ever. She is constantly horny. How the fuck do you longer term guys manage?
I have found with chastity cage she controls even when I can get hard. its really bad when she is in teasing mode or playing.
My husband is definitely more attentive when he is locked up and hasn't cum. He does more in hopes of making me happy enough to let him have the slightest release, ruined, milked or whatever. I don't know if he's more loving because he's already a loving man, but I think he tries to be on his best behavior not knowing what action may lead to a longer lock up period.
I did notice a couple of things: 1) He needs to still be teased the entire time or he loses complete interest and it becomes a negative frustration. 2) When I let him actually have a fun orgasm he was borderline jerky the next day, so that's how we got to ruined, minimized or milked orgasms. 3) He needed to be weaned off sex/orgasms, so at the beginning we was given an orgasm every other day for a week, the every 2 days, then I introduced ruined/milked orgasms.
I continued stretching it out and we both focused on trying to get the ruined orgasm timed perfectly. Doing this led to his being locked up for a year straight with no penetration on his behalf. I was with my boyfriend so I didn't miss my intercourse at all. Everybody enjoyed ourselves and it was intense. The crazy thing was when we finally had sex again and he barely entered me before cumming. That went on for a while which was humiliating to him but it was fun for us overall.
Memories like this is why I enjoy long term relationships. The boundaries that can be pushed and what can be experienced is so intoxicating when that bond and trust is there.
For my girl it's not about humiliation. Ita control. She loves how turned on I get. I have always had a crazy high sex drive & we screwed at least once a day, most days twice. She never wanted chastity until She had tasted control. Like last night, she wanted us to have some fun and I thought yes, I am going to get some tonight. 
didn't happen. She wanted to do something different. She wanted to watch porn together which we have not done in forever. Out comes the vibrator, and I get to watch her, spread, close to the TV, getting herself off, asking me if I was enjoying the show. I reminded her I am in a cock cage and it's straining. She Had me remove my pants, scoots up to me to where my cock is almost touching her pussy and she rubbed her soaked fingers all over my cage. No release. No sex. No sleep ffs!! Lol.
didn't happen. She wanted to do something different. She wanted to watch porn together which we have not done in forever. Out comes the vibrator, and I get to watch her, spread, close to the TV, getting herself off, asking me if I was enjoying the show. I reminded her I am in a cock cage and it's straining. She Had me remove my pants, scoots up to me to where my cock is almost touching her pussy and she rubbed her soaked fingers all over my cage. No release. No sex. No sleep ffs!! Lol.Lol, it is tease and denial and the humiliation comes soon. XxxFor my girl it's not about humiliation. Ita control. She loves how turned on I get. I have always had a crazy high sex drive & we screwed at least once a day, most days twice. She never wanted chastity until She had tasted control. Like last night, she wanted us to have some fun and I thought yes, I am going to get some tonight.
And don't I know it. She seems to have been doing her homework on this lifestyle and she is running with it. I wouldn't be surprised if I didn't have pussy the rest of this year which is a huge adjustment.
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I discussed the denial/attentiveness with her last night. I am apparently way more attentive to her. It's been hell the past few weeks but I do have wet dreams. It does help.
Yup my first real period was 4 weeks. Believe me after that amount of time I was climbing the walls. She had at least one orgasm a day and she made me help for the most part. Now the clock has started over, day 4.Just to update everyone
I am 6 days in now and already the sexual tension is building. I can't wait to see what I feel like in another week or so. As my desire to fuck my wife increases day by day, the enthusiasm with which I eat her pussy will as well, also my absolute adoration of her will increase day on day to the point where there is literally nothing I wouldn't do for her...
Interestingly, after a couple of weeks of plenty of sexual play with my wife but no ejaculation on my part, I seem to find it much much easier to talk about my desire for her to cuckold me with a big black man and his huge cock whilst I watch and suck her toes and hold her hand and make sure she's okay. She always tells me it's the 'Karezza' talking, and it is to an extent, but I believe Karezza brings out the truth in a relationship, it doesn't encourage nonsense and lies, just raw truth.
So yes...me not cumming does, without a shadow of doubt, make me a much better husband for my wife and she knows it as well. It's great when you're working as a team with the orgasm denial rather than doing any kind of 'stealth' denial that the wife knows nothing of!
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She gets three when she wakes and three before bed, at least.
I usually get a ruin every two to four weeks - keeps me horny.
She hasn't started the ruin orgasm stuff yet. I know We are both still learning about the lifestyle and we are due to chat over the weekend about where we go from here. I know she has already picked out a bull But she wants to discuss before we go any further. She has been spending lots of time on This site in the evenings reading up and looking for bulls. She always comes off the iPad wet and wanting me to dildo Fuck her. So ruin maybe on the card but now I'm on day 5 and have no idea when I get my next release.
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That is very erotic.
She's started ruining me without unlocking me, which wasn't advertised! And not unlocking me after being fucked. Two months ago she told me she wasn't bothered about fucking guys anymore. But the week before last she must have sucked on her bull's cock for 45 minutes solid. She is usually quite dominant sexually, but he was fucking her face quite violently and she just took it and sucked his cock back in automatically and dutifully if it popped out by accident. That was your horniest I've ever been I think.
