Do you prefer masturbating over sex?

[slinky1]

Cuckold or not, the point is there seems to be more and more men who prefer masturbation than to having a woman. I believe it's in part due to men no longer giving a fuck about woman in general, with all the hassles and potential legal and civil liabilities. In a way, it mirrors the decline of marriage. Woman are no longer objects worthy of wooing and potentially marrying. It's just not worth it.

And its horrible that the feminazi's are now saying that even to ask a woman out for a date can be construed as an assault. It's like why bother? I'll just masturbate as needed without zero hassle and not worry about rejection. Eventually the guy has jerked off to so much porn, female companionship is not needed or desired. And I also think that a lot more men are discovering there is nothing to be gained by affection or emotional connections because the woman will eventually use it against you.

The MGTOW movement is probably a parallel development along side the pornosexual or solosexual male. Even the volcel movement is aligned with it.

No doubt, before internet porn, you had a few old mags or vids and that might be it, or buy new ones that cost a fortune, so the real thing was chased like there was no tomorrow. But once the internet did come along, most men like myself who were tired of constant rejection/ knock backs/ humiliation just succumbed to staying home and pleasuring yourself instead. With an infinite supply of porn, you could just masturbate endlessly without the hassles of trying to approach women. I knew many men, including myself, that would plan an entire weekends of just staying home, and masturbating to porn non stop from Friday night until Sunday night without any desire to leave the house.
Always being able to add more excitement with toys, lingerie, heels etc. and chatting or webcamming other males doing the same.
You do that for 15 years and you realise you may still want or need a life partner, but sexually you know you will survive without pussy.

 

[syscom3]

No doubt, before internet porn, you had a few old mags or vids and that might be it, or buy new ones that cost a fortune, so the real thing was chased like there was no tomorrow. But once the internet did come along, most men like myself who were tired of constant rejection/ knock backs/ humiliation just succumbed to staying home and pleasuring yourself instead. With an infinite supply of porn, you could just masturbate endlessly without the hassles of trying to approach women. I knew many men, including myself, that would plan an entire weekends of just staying home, and masturbating to porn non stop from Friday night until Sunday night without any desire to leave the house.
Always being able to add more excitement with toys, lingerie, heels etc. and chatting or webcamming other males doing the same.
You do that for 15 years and you realise you may still want or need a life partner, but sexually you know you will survive without pussy.

I know exactly what you’re saying! I suspect though a lot of men are not dependent on affection and emotionally connecting with a woman through intimacy. And as such, although masturbation does not fulfill those two parts of a sexual experience, it doesn’t have to because it was not a pleasurable feeling to get more of.

I think a lot of psychologists and therapists have it wrong in saying it’s an innate and important thing for the psyche to have those feelings. I say it’s an individuals unique makeup for whether it’s pleasurable. Like for me. I’ve never enjoyed or sought out affection and emotional connections during sex. I just wanted to get laid!

 

[slinky1]

I know exactly what you’re saying! I suspect though a lot of men are not dependent on affection and emotionally connecting with a woman through intimacy. And as such, although masturbation does not fulfill those two parts of a sexual experience, it doesn’t have to because it was not a pleasurable feeling to get more of.

I think a lot of psychologists and therapists have it wrong in saying it’s an innate and important thing for the psyche to have those feelings. I say it’s an individuals unique makeup for whether it’s pleasurable. Like for me. I’ve never enjoyed or sought out affection and emotional connections during sex. I just wanted to get laid!

Well, I agree, most guys in my youth and now, just want to go out on a Saturday night and get some pussy, no strings attached 'pump and dump' and a lot of women are fine with that as well. The thing is, my balls ached just as much as the hung guy picking up chics all the time, I obviously wanted to spread my seed like every horny other guy, but I had no one of the opposite sex interested in helping achieve that. So for guys like me, I had no choice. While the confident guys were pumping their prized semen into the belly's/ mouths of all these hot young women, I was catching mine into a tissue and flushing it down the toilet... my cum was merely a messy, worthless by product of being undesirable to the opposite sex.
So you build an emotional resistance to those feelings and it also becomes a self defence mechanism to tell yourself you don't need a girl in your life just to empty your constant aching balls.

 

[syscom3]

Yes. And when statistics dictate that you do get a steady girlfriend, all those years of wanking makes you get bored quickly when she just likes plain vanilla sex. You just begin to figure why bother. Just masturbating is better, cleaner and safer.

 

[slinky1]

Yes. And when statistics dictate that you do get a steady girlfriend, all those years of wanking makes you get bored quickly when she just likes plain vanilla sex. You just begin to figure why bother. Just masturbating is better, cleaner and safer.

Exactly. Thats how it then splinters off in looking for new interests, when you jerk off... as I said, toys, sissy outfits, and 99% of the time big cocks become the main desirable thing you want, once you cross that point...and that horny cocks are plentiful, horny pussy less so... you sort of move on from pussy being the be all to end all.

 

[mariagarcia38]

There's actually a sexual orientation called "pornosexual". Almost always a man who does prefer to ******* his chicken than being with a live woman to have sex. The primary cause for it is no desire for an emotional connection during sex. Or no enjoyment or desire for affection. Other causes are social awkwardness or fear of rejection which inhibits meeting woman. In the past, these types of men would visit prostitutes. But now adays that can be risky. Whatever the cause, the easy availability of porn the past 40 years (adult book stores and internet) has created a generation of men who have no desire for a real relationship and sees that polishing their rocket is so much easier, cleaner, safer and less expensive.

The rise of sex bots is going to accelerate this phenomena. The me too movement and feminazi denigration of all men in general is not going to help things either. In Japan, we are seeing this happen in a large population. The rise of the male "herbivores" who have no interest in woman personally, yet enjoy their porn.

It’s crazy. Nothing like the real thing.

 

[slinky1]

Most cucks will jerk of to a dominant male fucking a submissive one, but never met one ever that jerks of to girl on girl lesbian porn. It needs to have a cock involved, if its big, hard, and dominant... then most cucks will want to wank to it.

 

[slinky1]

It’s crazy. Nothing like the real thing.

For a lot of cucks, their hand is the real thing

 

[syscom3]

It’s crazy. Nothing like the real thing.

Not exactly. How do you know what the real thing is like when you don’t get any? If all you get is readily available porn then that becomes the real thing. An alternative universe so to say. Then add in rejection, no money for dates, or one of many reasons then you have a perfect feedback loop. Porn becomes the woman. Then when it does become real, you wonder why the woman didn’t cum. Why she’s all touchy feels with you. And even worse, why she won’t do all those kinky things like being shared with a bbc.

It doesn’t take much to get bored with the woman and the porn world looks better and more interesting. Eventually it is reality and woman are not to be desired. But to be avoided like a stray dog on the road.

 

[mariagarcia38]

Not exactly. How do you know what the real thing is like when you don’t get any? If all you get is readily available porn then that becomes the real thing. An alternative universe so to say. Then add in rejection, no money for dates, or one of many reasons then you have a perfect feedback loop. Porn becomes the woman. Then when it does become real, you wonder why the woman didn’t cum. Why she’s all touchy feels with you. And even worse, why she won’t do all those kinky things like being shared with a bbc.

It doesn’t take much to get bored with the woman and the porn world looks better and more interesting. Eventually it is reality and woman are not to be desired. But to be avoided like a stray dog on the road.

Oh I totally agree it’s a useful outlet for guys that can’t or don’t want to bother to chase pussy. Im just sayin, man, if they only knew what they were missing.

 

[mariagarcia38]

For a lot of cucks, their hand is the real thing

I guess you’re right. It just boggles my mind I could never give up pussy.

 

[slinky1]

I guess you’re right. It just boggles my mind I could never give up pussy.

Most never had it to give it up, it was employed to combat no pussy in the first place. Most cucks just don't progress into regular sex, unless they marry the woman and even then its probably minimal... casual sex/ hook ups aren't on offer for most cucks.

 

[flsubboy4u]

There has never been a pussification of the American male. Dont think a small percentage of them that are, that is reflective of the whole population.

Let me revise what I said. The attempt at pussifucation of the American male through media, television, movies, Gillette razor company and the feminists.

 

[syscom3]

Let me revise what I said. The attempt at pussifucation of the American male through media, television, movies, Gillette razor company and the feminists.

I think it’s totally failed. If a boy doesn’t want to be pussyfied, nothing will come of it. If it’s an attempt to raise their awareness that some boyish behavior (that we grow out of as we mature) needs to be curtailed, then that’s ok and I think it’s starting to work.

All the other stuff that’s femininizing them is doomed to failure.

 

[BBCAddictCpl]

Well if you would rather suck a man's dick, maybe you need to go to the gay and bi section where you will find what you want.

I do. I wasn't looking for it here, I just mentioned in context with the thread I was posting in.

 

[BBCAddictCpl]

Cuckold or not, the point is there seems to be more and more men who prefer masturbation than to having a woman. I believe it's in part due to men no longer giving a fuck about woman in general, with all the hassles and potential legal and civil liabilities. In a way, it mirrors the decline of marriage. Woman are no longer objects worthy of wooing and potentially marrying. It's just not worth it.

And its horrible that the feminazi's are now saying that even to ask a woman out for a date can be construed as an assault. It's like why bother? I'll just masturbate as needed without zero hassle and not worry about rejection. Eventually the guy has jerked off to so much porn, female companionship is not needed or desired. And I also think that a lot more men are discovering there is nothing to be gained by affection or emotional connections because the woman will eventually use it against you.

The MGTOW movement is probably a parallel development along side the pornosexual or solosexual male. Even the volcel movement is aligned with it.

I think you are largely right and think it's unfortunate. I consider myself very lucky to already have my partner and not have to be seeking women for anything.

 

[Luvwfbm]

Have masterbated all my life..mostly to IR..love my hand were it belongs..on my wht dick.

 

[flsubboy4u]

I think it’s totally failed. If a boy doesn’t want to be pussyfied, nothing will come of it. If it’s an attempt to raise their awareness that some boyish behavior (that we grow out of as we mature) needs to be curtailed, then that’s ok and I think it’s starting to work.

All the other stuff that’s femininizing them is doomed to failure.

There has never been a pussification of the American male. Dont think a small percentage of them that are, that is reflective of the whole population.

Syscom is that really your picture in the avatar cause you look like a 70's porn star. Were you?

 

[syscom3]

Oh I totally agree it’s a useful outlet for guys that can’t or don’t want to bother to chase pussy. Im just sayin, man, if they only knew what they were missing.

But what if they do know what they are missing and prefer porn?

 

[HonkeySub]

But what if they do know what they are missing and prefer porn?

I'm still a virgin at 28 years old. But nothing gets me off more than interracial. I need to see bbc in white women to cum.