Do you fuck on the first meet?

[IROCCouple]

We like to grab a cocktail/beverage when meeting potential playmates when in a public setting. That 15 minutes of talking with someone in person either solidifies that you've identified mutual playmate(s) and they feel reciprocal or your instinct was wrong and the meeting shouldn't progress any further.

For those of you who meet people on BtoW, do you play on the first meet or is it a social testing of the waters?

 

[Busty Cougar]

We always start with just a meet and greet, make sure the vibe is right. Then the next time we meet.......

 

[IROCCouple]

We always start with just a meet and greet, make sure the vibe is right. Then the next time we meet.......

We usually start with a meet and greet with an option...

 

[housewifenheat]

We do a meet and greet in a public place as well. We also tell the Black man that this is just a say hello meeting. That way if we do click and I would like to take them home I can surprise them and do that.

 

[IROCCouple]

We do a meet and greet in a public place as well. We also tell the Black man that this is just a say hello meeting. That way if we do click and I would like to take them home I can surprise them and do that.

We’d say another meet and greet with the option...

 

[Roach]

Always fuck right off the bat.

 

[IROCCouple]

@housewifenheat do you find the gentleman pleasantly surprised or ill prepared if you choose to play same day?

 

[IROCCouple]

Always fuck right off the bat.

No social hour or minute, get right to it?

 

[Kellyshain]

I won’t be lol

 

[housewifenheat]

@housewifenheat do you find the gentleman pleasantly surprised or ill prepared if you choose to play same day?

I find them pleasantly surprised. They usually aren't expecting it but hope it happens. I have had a few who we just didn't click with so didn't do anything with them and they got very upset. But for the most part the guys are gentlemen and want us to be comfortable as well as us wanting them to be comfortable.

 

[Roach]

Well there is some chit chat. We go to parties to meet guys most of the time. I did invite a guy over and had her meet him at the door dressed slutty and give him a blow job as soon as the door closed. The pizza guy who got the wrong house got an eye full when she opened the door. Lol

 

[IROCCouple]

Well there is some chit chat.

I believe the dynamic is different with couples because for the most part we know who we came with (to the meet) and who were going home with, or staying home with in your case.

 

[Mootje]

I do LOL, just get down to business

 

[GaBlackSnake]

I have always meet at a public place for drinks and some was right after and some was a week or two later and two was not interested. Just last week I stepped in to fulfill a no show. I love this site

 

[IROCCouple]

I do LOL, just get down to business

Would we expect anything less Mootje

 

[Mootje]

Would we expect anything less Mootje

HA! I love how you THINK & ACT

 

[Mrjohnson0827]

Varies, if she's cool and we're both comfortable sure, but I met lots of women on 1st dates, that make thing just as uncomfortable as some men do..

 

[IROCCouple]

Varies, if she's cool and we're both comfortable sure, but I met lots of women on 1st dates, that make thing just as uncomfortable as some men do..

Have you ever been in a position where the other party was ready to play and you weren’t with it?

 

[Mrjohnson0827]

Have you ever been in a position where the other party was ready to play and you weren’t with it?

Nope, that hasn't happened yet.

 

[IROCCouple]

I have always meet at a public place for drinks and some was right after...

Do you prefer one over the other? Meet first with no play or meet and play (if all parties agree)?