I think we all agree that cheating in a relationship is wrong, an act of deceit that at some point will hurt the person you love and his trust, however, in the great percentage of "traditional" vanilla relationships that apparently
@mesk refers to, it is proven that women struggle more than men when it comes to staying faithful in relationships. They're also capable of staying under the radar, much better liars with an audacious, persuasive nature that enables them covering any major or minor infidelity acts.
The fact is, that for a woman who misses the rush of feeling excited and needs validation and attention outside her relationship for all the "right" or "wrong" reasons, it's usually a matter of hours to find a guy and fuck him silly behind her boyfriend's/husband's back.
And why not? She's been raised like an independent, confident "bad bitch" who owns the title and the liberation behind it, and unlike her mom or auntie, she takes charge of her life, preventing men walk all over her. Her besties are actively encouraging her to
“Go live your best life" just like they discreetly do to feed their egos, and have fun. Not to mention our feminist society influence and how young women get praised via social & mainstream media, even RnB music, for being excessively controlling and bossy. Or how empowerful the "bad bitch" life stance is to young female generations when they early achieve and publicly brag for large body counts.
So, there is no surprise that women are prone to cheating especially if the man is a “nice guy”. The paradox is, that usually the man who has all the qualities a woman would ever traditionally wanted, respect, financial security, fancy lifestyle, good looks, etc. is the one constantly being cheated because by default the "bad bitch" mentality takes it all for granted, including his non-aggressive nature as his ultimate weakness.
On the contrary, when it comes to one-night-stands or booty-calls, women are after the exact opposite male personas to mess with. No wonder why black guys who exert natural dominance with their masculinity and confidence seeping out of their dark skin pores are notoriously known for seducing white married pussy so effortlessly. And if race is still a daring boundary, it's always a white arrogant asshole having the honour to pull a married slut's thong on the side at the club's parking lot, or a full-body tattooed douchebag taking her from hand to the toilet to fuck her throat while somewhere a "nice guy" wonders why she's not answering her phone. Because that's the harsh reality in the vanilla world where relationships are sadly not as transparent as they ought to be.
As such, its quite entertaining observing typical "nice guy" behaviours like
@mesk, apologizing for sharing his completely reasonable cheating fantasies in his thread, because some female users (based on their own LS experiences - and quite unfairly in my opinion) confronted him as pervert. Would they ever dare to confront a dominant BBC for sharing a story of a married woman he's regularly banging behind her hubby's back? Probably not! Would a BBC ever apologise for sharing a cheating-mom fantasy? Nope! And this is exactly why more and more "bad bitches" today desperately need this big dick energy/vibe, to - one way or another - keep their mouth shut!
