When we first started it was more of a “swinging” thing, and we were a new couple, so we agreed to only enter act with others when both of us were present, mostly so faith could be established that nothing “emotional” was going down. Living this lifestyle for 23 years eventually several occasions took place where it was a “now or never” situation, by then trust between us was beyond secure, we were each others other half. I still kept it to a minimum, and whenever possible arrange a second meet based on my husband’s schedule. Bottom line, we did it for 23 years and are still together for 40, so, I guess we either got lucky, or did something right, the odds of doing this for that long and remaining together are pretty slim, but hey…so’s winning the lottery, and even though it usually isn’t you, somebody wins it right?
