I always thought that if my wife could meet another woman That was in the lifestyleIt might make it easier for her to understand and move forward. Any kind of help I'm sure is worth itI've been in conversation with an experienced bull on hhere (I'm sure he'll make himself known if he wants) and he's suggested I post about my friendships with other cuckold couples.
Since my wife met her bull we've helped introduce 2 couples to the lifestyle (one full on, dived in head first the other picks it up and down a bit) and I've become good friends with the cuckold husbands. We help each other talk through the wtf?! moments we have and the angst most cucks seem to get.
I'm also currently talking on the phone and online with a cuck wannabe who's wife has asked to speak to my wife to discuss how things work for her.
In all cases the big step has been when the men took a step back and encouraged their wife to live the fantasy that they have and not the fantasy the cuckold has. Let the wife/girlfriend find her own way with the husband's support rather than him pushing down his own fantasy world.
Do any other cucks talk to and support other couples or singles?
Would be interested to read your comments.
@Neilson will reach out to you.
Tell us about why you like the idea of a cuckold social network?
What do you think the Social Network can do for other cuckolds? and for Women?
Would love the beginner's guide And any other help I appreciateYou found them. I am so proud of @Neilson for posting this.
This can be our home base now and we can start to post some training tips and techniques for cuckolds to try.
I will also work with one of my former Hotwives to write some amazing Guidebooks for you guys.
If you want the Beginner's Guide to Cuckolding - Leave a Comment.
amazingLOVE the comment and thank you.
Yes, women have more sexual capacity than men. Think about it. A woman can have multiple orgasms, she can take more than one cock. Men have to HOLD off from cumming in order to LAST and have stamina. If I dont have regular consistent sex, which I have not since CV19 was in full swing, its hard to have stamina of 2-4 hours. Thats my longest so far, I penetrated a woman for 4 hours straight. It only happened twice and it was with the same woman. But she did EVERYTHING I asked her to do and she understood what kept me hard. In fact, it became a game to her in her mind, when she could feel me getting soft inside her, she would do the tricks I told her about and she said, it was the best feeling she ever had feeling a hard cock engorge will pressed against her cervix...she said she had never felt that before and she liked that I was going hard and soft inside her over the 4 hours.
We both were shocked at the time when I finally came inside her. We had to do MATH, and were like, OMG!! did we just fuck for 4 hours straight?
very well putThank you all for helpful comments. I have been a wannabe for many years as I have a shy and reluctant wife. I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious etc. My ability to properly fuck her stopped many years ago as I am a fast cummer and lack confidence. It’s how I started to eat my own cum as I would go down on her after cumming so quickly. I always seemed to leave her dissatisfied which led to even more of loss of confidence. Throughout this process I have accepted my weakness and now look forward to some humiliation as it excites me sexually. So yes I could use some guidance/support getting strong enough that would provide her the opportunity to feel comfortable enough to take the next step she deserves.
so glad i found this subject and you are right on the money here and clearly educated on this. Thsnks for your commentsthank you for your comment.
I think you bring up a very good point. "I attribute this reluctance to me being a very weak male, my inability to be able to follow up and show her the way, encourage her to be more flirtatious"
This is a real issue for a lot of gfs and wives. They would be willing to fuck a bull, but your insecurity and your lack of self confidence makes her question whether or not this would BREAK you emotionally and psychologically. A lot of men do not see how amazing your women are, like they take care of you more than you take care of them. And I understand, you are saying "I want to do more for her, I want her to be satisfied."
What I am telling you and what my former hotwife, who I trained is helping men understand. IF YOU SAY YOU WANT THIS...you need to start doing some self improvement. You should not FOCUS on sex. Thats not going to be your role anymore going forward. Men like me will fuck your gf and wives for you. But then what will YOU DO? So you need to mentally prepare yourself RIGHT NOW for the future. Its not fair to your woman that you don't become an AMAZING supporter and not self improving is being a COWARD! So its time for men to be BRAVE and start moving forward.
I agree if my wife met a A woman into this lifestyle I would bet that would be a big help in helping her understandI think it would be a definite plus. I feel a lot of women like my wife have questions that she’d feel better having other women friends answer. I also feel talking with experienced couples help you keep your mind from running off into fantasy land and stay grounded, along with talking about things we may have never even thought of that might come up when starting out.
yes he clearly is@hungteacher - is filled with a lot of wisdom. You should listen to him
Hung Teacher, I would like the Beginner's Guide. My wife has agreed to meet and have sex with Black men which is a huge decision for her. I've encouraged her because for health and age issues I have been physically unable satisfy her. So far we have only met with two men. I currently screen potential men and show her the people that meet the requirements she's requested. I would like to help her build her confidence meet more often and move toward a more hotwife/cuckold mindset.You found them. I am so proud of @Neilson for posting this.
This can be our home base now and we can start to post some training tips and techniques for cuckolds to try.
I will also work with one of my former Hotwives to write some amazing Guidebooks for you guys.
If you want the Beginner's Guide to Cuckolding - Leave a Comment.
Here is the link to the Cuckold Guide - it was written by Goddess Rain from OregonHung Teacher, I would like the Beginner's Guide. My wife has agreed to meet and have sex with Black men which is a huge decision for her. I've encouraged her because for health and age issues I have been physically unable satisfy her. So far we have only met with two men. I currently screen potential men and show her the people that meet the requirements she's requested. I would like to help her build her confidence meet more often and move toward a more hotwife/cuckold mindset.
Im not sure if this is still an "issue" in your relationship, but thats why I recommend training for couples and especially for hot wives and cuckoldresses. To be quite frank, the sex part is the easy part. But navigating your relationship is where the metal meets the road.We went through some tough times early in our relationship. What helped me is that I accepted her sexuality, which is part of the reason why I am with her, her independence and quite frankly I believe she needs this lifestyle. She has been dedicated to her health, her body is incredible from being a gym rat and I definitely think a large part of her gym dedication is the lifestyle.
I would make sure that anyone letting his wife/significant other enjoy this lifestyle believes in her freedom, believe that she is just getting the equivalent of a massage, believes that it is natural and healthy, believes that lots of sex for women is a good thing, and feels happy about his partner living a full natural sexual life, one that nature intended.
I like my relationship now, but there are things that maybe could improve.
Two things come to mind that still make me upset that happened to us.
We went to Clearwater Florida 3 years ago. It was awesome BUT, she told someone she was seeing and he showed up. We got into a fight and of she left for A WHOLE DAY. I had trouble forgiving her for that.... so we now have a NO SUPRISES policy.
We were at a club and she was ******* and was rubbing some guys dick through his pants.
It has to do that when she is with me, SHE IS WITH ME..... I don't mind her talking to other dudes, or even flirting but no touching.
My cuckold from the UK @Neilson will contact everyone that posts on this thread, but so far, only 5% of people that post have responded to him.A social network is a great idea.
Were you able to connect with @NeilsonI agree if my wife met a A woman into this lifestyle I would bet that would be a big help in helping her understand
Thanks for sharing the link, great advice!Here is the link to the Cuckold Guide - it was written by Goddess Rain from Oregon
Cuckolding for Beginners.pdf
drive.google.com
My cuckold from the UK @Neilson will contact everyone that posts on this thread, but so far, only 5% of people that post have responded to him.
What does that say about the seriousness and reality of people posting?
there is nothing wrong with fantasy chat, but fellas, stop writing checks your mouth cannot CASH!!
But I have spoken to more women than most of the cuckolds on here have combined. Truthfully, women are 10x more open minded than men are in general. The biggest difference between men and women I see is women are much more aware of what is happening around them. Women are less prone to making a complete fool of themselves. Its also not culturally acceptable for women to make fools of themself. We excuse men who are stupid, by saying "boys will be boys" but in reality men make 100x more mistakes than women do. Women don't get second chances, men do. So women are more cautious, but make no mistake, caution does not equal close-minded.
Where does it "clearly state" here that what you said above is only your opinion, for that is exactly what this is, opinion! Practice what you preach is "clearly" the order of the day here! Just my two cents.All opinions are welcome, but please clearly state, this is just my opinion before making a statement.