Where I grew up there were no black people. I was barely 13 years old before I did meet some black people, it was when I went to an Air Cadet camp in another area of the country. The accommodations were on an military air base, and was where I met my first black people ever. The second evening there after a baseball game five of my friends and I headed to the showers. Like any military facility modesty was never a construction priority, consequently the showers were all in one large room, all open with the exception of dividers between each shower. I recall even those were very sparse, maybe 2ft square, about waist high for a full grown adult. The dressing room adjoined the shower room. Anyway, as we entered the showers area there was this much older black guy in the furthest corner showering and conducting some self-pleasure.
This sight led to a number of first life experiences for me and my friends. I'll stick to my own experience however. When I referred to a "much older" cadet, I being just 13 at the time, a 19/20 year old guy is almost an old man! Anyway, this was the first time I had ever seen a naked black guy, or any other guy his age! It was also the first time I had ever seen someone masturbate! He was so focused on what he was doing he didn't even see us standing there, awe struck! It was also the first time I had ever seen a guy ejaculate! It definitely was the first time I had ever seen a cock that big "and it was black!" To shorten this story, this experience had a long lasting effect upon me!
As I got older I would often wonder, later developing into "the" favorite fantasy of mine, a black guy making out with a white girl! Could a white girl really handle something that huge without getting hurt? That fantasy, naturally, carried over into our marriage. The rest is history which we've written extensively elsewhere on this site if you're interested! Conclusion?
My fantasy was simply the expectation that my fantasy might become a reality! Never ever thought I would truly experience it, let alone that the white girl I would see getting fucked by a big black cock would ever be my wife! Neither did I ever think that the black guy getting into that white pussy would be a long lost old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin! I also, from our time together in the dorm, knew he was extremely well endowed and wondered if Pam could ever accommodate anything so big! Pam did it and loved it!