Very well said!Do I "like" cleaning up? No
Enjoy being told to clean up? Yes
Enjoy being surprised by mess? Yes
For me it's all about the power dynamics, her naughtiness, and my humiliation. In our version of cuckolding, I'm not supposed to enjoy the experience. In some kinky way, the less I actually enjoy things the hotter the experience is for both of us. We are always seeking ways to keep me on the edge of loving and genuinely hating what is happening.