I posted a thread a few months back and got a few responses. Since then I've spent some time reading many posts on here. I wonder if I fall into the "cuck/cuckold" label or not. I consider myself very confident and carry myself as such. I'm far from weak or submissive. I don't have a small cock, but I am not hung by any means, I'm just your average white guy I guess. When my wife and I started dating I remember going over and hanging out at her place and seeing a purple dildo in her bedroom. It was not huge, but it was definitely longer and thicker than me. Over the years I've met her friends and more of them have been in relationships with black men. To my knowledge, my wife never has. At her most recent job she made friends with a couple of girls that date black men (white girls) and a black girl who quit and moved to PA. She also began talking about work stories of this younger black guy that she worked with and I found out they had text a few times which when I asked she got defensive and said it was only work stuff. I've spent the last couple of years watching interracial porn (mostly amateur) and imagining my wife in the videos. I just imagine she is with one of her friends and that they set her up with someone. I also have a small collection of black dildos (realistic ones) that I've used on her a few times. I can't help but wonder if I'm a cuck, or not. I know that I have zero interest in being belittled, submitting, wearing any cock cage, or panties, or any of the other stuff I see with the exception of wanting to watch my wife getting fucked by a black man while she jerks me off and/or sucks me off while she is getting fucked. I honestly don't think it will ever happen, and I certainly don't know how I could ever even mention it to her. So how would you folks "define" me? Thanks for reading.
Cuck or Not?
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You like to write don’t you? You also like to share intimate details with others online. Listen this is simple. A cuckold actually has a definition and I think it can be found in Websters. A cuckold is a man who has a wife who has sex with other men. Period. Doesn’t matter if you know or not or how it happens or when it happens. If a married woman spreads her legs for a man that is not her husband she has cuckolded her husband. So if your wife has never cheated on you after you were married you are not a cuckold. That being said it’s obvious from your writing that you are dying to become one. You are online and nobody here knows you. Just say it and you will feel better. You want your wife to fuck a black guy so drop hints and encourage her. Oh and the young black guy she has texted? She has either fucked him or wants to fuck him. I believe you already know that. No woman has ever given me her number that didn’t want to rail me.
Fair enough.
I think you are already a cuck.
People read too much into the word cuckold. They imagine the extreme people here the self loathing, micropenis crowd who believe in some weird concept called black New World order, which is a form of reverse racism. If that’s what cuckold means then count me out!
However I am a cuckold because my wife has sex with other men and I remain faithful, and turned on. I wanted this lifestyle but will confess it comes with some pain. Yet we are both addicted.
However I am a cuckold because my wife has sex with other men and I remain faithful, and turned on. I wanted this lifestyle but will confess it comes with some pain. Yet we are both addicted.
You are a lucky man. Is the pain jealousy or something else?
I was never the jealous type until more recently. But it started when she settled on one guy to the exclusion of others. He began pushing that and getting her to cancel dates with others. Some other stuff happened that affected what had been blissful 11 years previously. It’s better now.
I fully understand female jealousy because they are insecure naturally and fear losing what they have but male jealousy is more peculiar to me. Jealousy can make you feel alive. Jealousy is what makes cuckolding so addictive. If I don’t feel jealous I would feel the whole thing is a waste of time. Embrace the jealousy it’s a natural high no ******* can give you. It will make you lust like crazy. It will make you hot for a woman you have been with for 20 years and would otherwise be bored. I always thought the main reason a husband would want to be cuckolded by his wife after 10 years of marriage was so he could be interested again in sex with her all created by jealousy. I want to be jealous to the point of crazy desire.
You are referring to compersion. That’s different. I had plenty of what you’re talking about.
No that’s not what I’m talking about. Yes I think lots of guys get off on compersion although I always wonder if it is true compersion or just a way to get off. True compersion would simply be a general happiness for your partner having a really good loving relationship with a parent or sibling or friend. Being excited that your wife is falling in love with her bull to me isn’t true compersion because it is making your dick hard and you are going to jerk of to it. To me that is simply a fetish based on humiliation. When your wife tells you her bull has such a great cock that she thinks about bouncing on it all the time and you know she likes it better than yours and that knowledge gives you all kinds of mixed feelings that is jealousy. So no I am not referring to compersion I am talking about pure jealousy. Maybe you could throw envy in there too if you wished your cock was as big as her bulls cock. However for me I would not feel that way. I like the jealousy.
How long have you been in the LS and how active has your wife been?
I don’t currently have a wife. Just dating and hoping to find the right woman to be a hotwife. I have been researching cuckolding for more than a decade now but never actually been cucked. For some stupid reason women fall massively in love with me and I don’t think a single one has ever cheated. I had a 7 year marriage, a 5 year live in relationship, a 3 year live in relationship, a dozen 6 month to a year relationships, and 50 short term affairs. I’m the masculine alpha male type and women only want to submit to me. Now that I want a hotwife I am finding it difficult to see how I will work this thing. I would be very good at it so I need a woman who will be very good at it. What I want is a great partner in a very loving solid relationship that likes to flirt with other men and have sexy time with guys she meets so she can tease me. That would be ideal for me.
Okay. So researching is different than reality. There is simply no way to be an expert at something you’ve never done.
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Wittol is a more specific term for most here. "a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it" whereas cuck could just be a cheating wife the husband doesn't even know about.
Definition of WITTOL
a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it; a witless person… See the full definition
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I don’t feel wittol is really better, at least not in common usage. Cuck or cuckold has come to be the proper word for husbands whose wives have sex with other men whether the husband is victimized or not. A few use wittol but not many.
Very goodWittol is a more specific term for most here. "a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it" whereas cuck could just be a cheating wife the husband doesn't even know about.
Definition of WITTOL
a man who knows of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it; a witless person… See the full definition
I knew of the word but it's very infrequently used.
The main difference is a Wittol knows what is happening, a cuck may or may not know.
Yes but it still fails to be descriptive because tolerating is not the same as encouraging infidelity.
I agree, there is a clear difference between accepting and encouraging (I am a bit in the middle these days....can't say I am really encouraging it anymore but also a bit more than just accepting it
).I think there should be a word to describe a cuckold who is actively encouraging his wife....but I don't know of one which fits exactly.
I think we are possibly in a similar place. I don’t encourage it as much any longer because she sets up her dates. And at least one guy I just tolerate lolI agree, there is a clear difference between accepting and encouraging (I am a bit in the middle these days....can't say I am really encouraging it anymore but also a bit more than just accepting it
I think there should be a word to describe a cuckold who is actively encouraging his wife....but I don't know of one which fits exactly.
