Yes, I would like that. It would be beneficial to us both perhaps. Also, I think you are genuine. So many people post fantasy, which is fine but not interesting much to me. I would interested to hear how this goes, sort of step by step. The communication, flirting, what you wore, did you get excited texting, did your husband unknowingly reap the benefits in bed with your sexual arousal by a secret black man, were you thinking of your lover while with husband, are you having second thoughts after your first date, etc. Just your personal feelings and actions. In the future you may post a dressed up for a date photo here, even without your face seen.
You could do your own journal. Perhaps, people could give helpful advice. I want to know how you are feeling...