I think that sneaking around and taking risks while having fun with other men is huge sexual thrill. I enjoy sex with my husband but there is nothing like being naughty with a big cock stranger.
i can well understand that the taboo of doing something forbidden can create an erotic thrill as well as the risk to be caught. i think these are similar emotional dimensions as for a "cuckold" the taboo of sharing his wife which is also out of the conventional norms and the risk to lose his wife to another man.
How does it feel for you after the fact? Do you (sometimes) feel guilt? Again, something both a hotwife and a cuckold husband typically encounter after "playtime", especially if they are new to the lifestyle.
Relationships are very different and i am not the one to judge. i know there are people who say, if my partner was unfaithful, i`d better not know. For me this is not how i want my (= our) relationship to work. Cheating is completely undesirable for me, no matter if it was me or my girlfriend.
i think and hope our relationship is built on trust, which can only be created if one is honest to the other. So, if it ever happens i cheat, which is not my intention, i will not be able to be secretive about it and will have a strong feeling my woman deserves to know, so i will tell her. And i would want to know, if it was the other way around.
But as i said, relationships are different.
I agree, there is such a hot feeling when filling up someone elses wife.
There are hotwifing couples that get a thrill out of pretending the wife is cheating, when in fact the woman keeps her husband informed thruout the "meet". What, she has to go for the restroom? Of course! She is going to text hubby how the evening with you is proceeding.
And she will tell him every single detail afterwards.