I can date with other man but it is not cheating. My husband like to watch but he know I like meet other man and he cannot be there every time so I like go with other man some time alone
This is my big concern too - it seems from what I've been reading about becoming a hotwife that in the long run you risk making your husband irrelevant in the sexual/emotional side of your relationship, which is the critical glue for any couple, right? He already complains that all I do is "work" him around the house lol
If you're both aroused by the idea, have ground rules. If you love your hubby, ground rules are only fair. One big one, that would be comforting to him is that either of you can stop the ride immediately.
Would that be something you're comfortable with? You really really get into this, he gets cold feet, and says no?
Also, make sure to continue to include him sexually, even if it's not him penetrating you. Maybe it's blowjobs for him. Maybe it's him pleasing you orally, either before or after you have sex with black men. Maybe it's just backrubs, and you tell him how much you love him for letting you explore.
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