Changing Wife's Mind
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I could always recognize and appreciate a good looking man , black or white etc. and did take some convincing for me to take the plunge. admittedly I was very curious too about the " myth". My first time felt awkward for me, having just met him and after a little chit chat, he was already going down on me and I was sucking his cock. I guess maybe it was an awakening or at least had me bit more curious to want to try again to see if I could experience those feelings again and s few days later met up again and was good if not better than the first time. Still wasn't sure if it was just the newness of the situation or that feeling of being wanted or desired, but I continued to see him more and more and alone without the white guy I was seeing that introduced me to him. After my black lover had invited two of his black friends to join us, definitely knew something had changed in me, again having just barely met them and feeling so exposed and desired was a powerful feeling, thought why not, cross it off my bucket list, but found myself wanting to see all of them again and again or being introduced to other friends of theirs. I think after a few more meetings with small groups of guys is when I accepted that fact that I preferred blackmen and was no going back to my vanilla ways.
great story. thank you for posting.
welcome, glad I could contribute or give some perspective
Pam, my ex wife looking very demure. I was chatting on line the other day about how many women were so reluctant to tell their husbands or boyfriends about their sexual past. I boasted a little about how, from the beginning of our relationship, Pam, my ex wife had been very open about the fact that at various times in her 37 years that she had done some pretty slutty things. When we first started fucking each other, we were talking about our previous sex partners and I asked her to tell me if she ever had sex with a black guy. She reluctantly confessed that she had a one-nighter on a camping trip with her white BF and two black guys in 1980. I learned over the years that she had had several other BBCs.
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me for sure lol.
Kim’s first face to face with a black man was very interesting , Jim worked with me and became a family friend , we spent some weekends together at the football , I spoke favourable of Jim to Kim who was very interested and asked many questions, I invited him to dinner , Kim had cooked a super dinner but he arrived as she was still working in the kitchen,but the look she gave was very coy but eyes wide , Kim went and changed , eventually came down in what could be described as a sluts outfit , she looked fantastic Jim could not take his eyes of her , the night went well , Jim left and I mentioned Jim’s attraction to her , she went red but agreed and was pleased she made a hit with him .
Kim was keen to see him again and when his name was mentioned in bed she became wet and hot .
So I organised a cruise and had invited Jim to come , that in another story I put together .
Kim was keen to see him again and when his name was mentioned in bed she became wet and hot .
So I organised a cruise and had invited Jim to come , that in another story I put together .
Yes it was the same for my wife !
Fair play, glad it worked out so well.
Calling humans, men of African decent, de humanizing , seeing people as animals calling them Bulls! You proud of yourself?
Natasha was certainly very reluctant to admit it, perhaps even to herself. She later admitted that she was afraid I'd be upset. Now she readily tells me when she sees a guy she fancies, almost always black or biracial. She has also said that if not married, she thinks she would only date black guys. So some real progress
FOR US IT WAS NEVER A SENSE OF NOT WANTING TO ADMIT AN ATTRACTION FOR BLACK MEN, WAS BASICALLY NOT EVEN ON OUR RADAR UNTIL WE WERE LOOKING FOR SOME PORN TO MAKE US HORNY AS FOREPLAY BEFORE SEX SEVERAL YEARS AGO. OUR FAVORITE TYPE WAS MAINLY AMATEUR SWINGERS GROUP SEX AND IN ONE OF THEM THERE WERE A FEW VERY SEXY BLACK MEN AND I SAID TO HIM THESE BLACK MEN REALLY PUT THEIR ALL INTO FUCKING THE WOMEN, THEIR MASCULINE STAMINA AND ASSERTIVE AURA MADE ME TINGLE ALL OVER AND I GOT INCREDIBLY HORNY THEN WHILE FINGERING ME HE ASKED IF ID CONSIDER SWINGING AND IF ID CONSIDER HAVING SEX WITH BLACK MEN? WITH NO HESITATION I SAID IM INTERESTED IF YOU ARE AS WELL AND YOU THINK JEALOUSY WONT DIVIDE US? THATS HOW WE DELVED INTO THE LIFESTYLE SLOWLY.
No you are rigthOui, c'est vrai?
Could you ever stop now?
It was a huge battle for me. I had been with black men during college and loved it but it was always about sex and getting off. It was never meant to be a long term thing or something permanent. Then I met my husband and there was more friendship and a romantic connection versus what I had been doing. There were issues in the bedroom but I was having to weigh having a future with a good man or being sexually satisfied and maybe never finding the type of connection we had. I figured sex was something my husband and I could work on and get better at.
It was years down the road with two differing sex drives that I had to admit to myself I just preferred the sexual company of black men versus others.
It was years down the road with two differing sex drives that I had to admit to myself I just preferred the sexual company of black men versus others.
when you wrote, “having just barely met them and feeling so exposed and desired was a powerful feeling”
then having sex with Black men you’d never met before...that’s perfect, love seeing your desire and appetite
TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS...
Most white people in general don't have a lot of personal experience with black people, especially one on one with a black man. With that being said, this lifestyle can be incredibly daunting and intimidating for a white WOMAN. ESPECIALLY a married woman.
There's a lot that goes into this on different levels. For any wife who truly gets into this interracial lifestyle, I SALUTE Her!
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