One of these days yall going to listen to Magic Mike LOL
Everybody should be using video chats to meet up with each other. That's where we are now and there's no excuses not to.
it's REALLY NOT hard to find a consistent and well established guy in the Lifestyle.
I did an entire thread talking about raising standards in this lifestyle, it applies to both men and women/couples.
There is a good reason why you see a handful of us same guys on his website constantly hooking up. It's not because we are SO AMAZING (it's actually true LOL
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but the fact we are Real Men who know how to conduct ourselves in his lifestyle. We find more success than the 'LOSERS' you refer to.
Without judgment, a better question would be - why would You waste time with losers?
There's enough quality men on this website, most of them are Verified and have the REAL tag next to their Name.
Videos with other members. Referrals from other women /Couples. Clearly defined photos and profiles. Nothing MYSTERIOUS.
Another thing I have found useful in his lifestyle over the years... Real women and couples(and guys) don't do a lot of EXAGGERATING. They are very plain-spoken people who show up when they say they will.
Easy to schedule with. Most of us have families to consider. Just use common sense and make every candidate do a VIDEO CHAT.