Caring/Gentle men

[Sannik12]

My wife has had 3 black cocks so far .....first one was the worse ....second was better and the third was honestly useless


Our issue is its hard to find a gentle black man that will be just about her ....they always want to dirty talk or play with her feet or just be jerks and neither of us are into that kind of stuff .....We are looking for a guy that will be gentle and let her pussy open up for him and not hurt her or ******* her to do stuff she doesnt want to do ...

Why is this so hard to find?

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

Maybe more details about what she likes for a start

 

[Sannik12]

Maybe more details about what she likes for a start

its been said to everyone beforehand and they still want to do what they want ...the first guy she ever did just rammed his dick in til she ******* and at that point she just wanted it over

 

[SnowLady]

My wife has had 3 black cocks so far .....first one was the worse ....second was better and the third was honestly useless


Our issue is its hard to find a gentle black man that will be just about her ....they always want to dirty talk or play with her feet or just be jerks and neither of us are into that kind of stuff .....We are looking for a guy that will be gentle and let her pussy open up for him and not hurt her or ******* her to do stuff she doesnt want to do ...

Why is this so hard to find?

This can be an issue with lackluster men that think they are God's gift to women even though they are not. This is why it is always good to establish a connection before even if it is just a few chats and not all about how you want to wreck each other. Especially if you are seeking something to last awhile it's better to be totally open and honest with expectations and desires on all sides of the fence.

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

So no pornstyle ramming ?

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

This can be an issue with lackluster men that think they are God's gift to women even though they are not. This is why it is always good to establish a connection before even if it is just a few chats and not all about how you want to wreck each other. Especially if you are seeking something to last awhile it's better to be totally open and honest with expectations and desires on all sides of the fence.

Yes exactly . I recommend at least a phone/video chat be done prior to meeting

 

[Sannik12]

This can be an issue with lackluster men that think they are God's gift to women even though they are not. This is why it is always good to establish a connection before even if it is just a few chats and not all about how you want to wreck each other. Especially if you are seeking something to last awhile it's better to be totally open and honest with expectations and desires on all sides of the fence.

I completely understand that ....we usually talk for a little bit before we meet just to have even a smidge of comfort but when it comes down to it there just seems like a lack of respect

 

[silverfoxes]

Gotta take yo time with them

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

I completely understand that ....we usually talk for a little bit before we meet just to have even a smidge of comfort but when it comes down to it there just seems like a lack of respect

Vid chat will especially weed that out , you should be able to tell by their mannerisms and how they talk

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

I would suggest also get yourselves verified so that u may meet higher quality bulls

 

[Sannik12]

I would suggest also get yourselves verified so that u may meet higher quality bulls

this was before we were on here when we started doing this years ago on another site ....

 

[SnowLady]

I completely understand that ....we usually talk for a little bit before we meet just to have even a smidge of comfort but when it comes down to it there just seems like a lack of respect

That is where be totally honest comes into play. Tell them you are seeking a caring and long term boyfriend and not a thug to use her and leave her in a mess. Say you are seeking a respectful relationship and if that cannot happen it is better to keep looking. Sadly there are a lot of men out there enjoying the demeaning side of things and some people seek that. Just be vocal in saying that is not what you want. Another option is for you to take a back seat and let your wife seek alone which might help attract the right men.

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

No worries ,do keep in mind that you may be dealing with alpha men ,when I was younger I would've been a little aggressive too lol,not saying that some older men aren't

 

[Sannik12]

That is where be totally honest comes into play. Tell them you are seeking a caring and long term boyfriend and not a thug to use her and leave her in a mess. Say you are seeking a respectful relationship and if that cannot happen it is better to keep looking. Sadly there are a lot of men out there enjoying the demeaning side of things and some people seek that. Just be vocal in saying that is not what you want. Another option is for you to take a back seat and let your wife seek alone which might help attract the right men.

we both look and she always has final say ....main thing is not too long of a dick and no pain ...which hasnt been held up so far

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

That is where be totally honest comes into play. Tell them you are seeking a caring and long term boyfriend and not a thug to use her and leave her in a mess. Say you are seeking a respectful relationship and if that cannot happen it is better to keep looking. Sadly there are a lot of men out there enjoying the demeaning side of things and some people seek that. Just be vocal in saying that is not what you want. Another option is for you to take a back seat and let your wife seek alone which might help attract the right men.

Yes don't let these sites have u believe that all bulls are into degrading/humiliation , I'm not crazy about it at all

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

we both look and she always has final say ....main thing is not too long of a dick and no pain ...which hasnt been held up so far.

I see why yall have difficulty it's like a needle in a haystack lol

 

[SnowLady]

we both look and she always has final say ....main thing is not too long of a dick and no pain ...which hasnt been held up so far

I am sorry to hear that things have not gone well for her in regards to these. Keep trying and like I said be open and honest and hopefully that will help you to weed through not so fun men.

Yes don't let these sites have u believe that all bulls are into degrading/humiliation , I'm not crazy about it at all

I agree with you. I have been fortunate enough to meet some great men that do not want to get into that side of things. Some do but it's not everyone's thing for sure.

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

I am sorry to hear that things have not gone well for her in regards to these. Keep trying and like I said be open and honest and hopefully that will help you to weed through not so fun men.


I agree with you. I have been fortunate enough to meet some great men that do not want to get into that side of things. Some do but it's not everyone's thing for sure.

It's not realistic to believe that every bull would or want to

 

[Hiddenfreek17]

I am sorry to hear that things have not gone well for her in regards to these. Keep trying and like I said be open and honest and hopefully that will help you to weed through not so fun men.


I agree with you. I have been fortunate enough to meet some great men that do not want to get into that side of things. Some do but it's not everyone's thing for sure.

Keeps me looking too. I have always been a sensual lover at least at first

 

[SnowLady]

It's not realistic to believe that every bull would or want to

That is why I find so much humor in trying to label people with a title when it comes to kink. I think most people are going to take bits and pieces from things using what they enjoy and tossing aside what they do not.