O god I just love the way you look at thisI don't think it's a gay thing either. My first times wasn't my idea to ask the cuckolds, but were their wifes, suggesting and convincing me, at the very first time, to let him suck me first, and after awhile asked me to do him too while she was driving both of us and enjoying the scene. I always thought about it as something above sex and sexuality, certainly not gay thing, that they both wants to service me and please me anyway they can, especially in the case of hubby's. They are so intrigued and excited to watch their husbands submitting and getting dominated like they never seen them before in any other aspect of life. And that's the way I experience it too, not as a gay act, but as a person that is doing anything to please me. I would never do that with a black guy, though.
I appreciate your point of view
its not a gay or straight thing
its sex...its erotic
it is so hot that some wives want to witness their husbands being dominated like they never have been before