Omg I thought I was crazy but I always thought my wife started acting more submissive and feminine any time we were around a black guy. One time she loudly said " I wonder if he's got a big dick like all the other black guys" we were at a bar and had been drinking. He looked over smiled and said yeah I do if you want to see it. She then told him "oh I'm sorry didn't mean for you to hear that im married and this is my husband." I apologized for her and he said "oh she ain't gotta apologize about nothin" while looking her up and down biting his lip. She started laughing and said, "see he liked it." He then said "nah I just like your fine ass." She starts giggling, looks at me and says "aww he's nice too" keep in mind my wife was ******* and she would never cheat unless I was okay with it. At this point I had to grab her hand and pull her away because I wasn't sure I was ready for that without really discussing it.
The guy didn't even acknowledge me he just wanted to fuck my wife and didnt act concerned i was even standing there (which my wife brouht up on the way home.) She said "i cant believe that guy said all that with you standing right there and I'm not sure why but i thought it was hot everytime he talked to you he never took his eyes off of me and idk he just made me feel sexy how confident he was." I brushed it off as ******* talk.
We had watched interracial together prior to this but I hadn't told her I fantasize about watching her with a bbc yet. So it was a really weird mix of emotions. Part of me was extremely turned on and other half of me just said remove yourself from this situation or she's going to lose respect for you. I jerked off thinking about the encounter all the time.
Eventually when I told her my fantasy the first thing she said was "Why did you pull me away from that hot black guy at the bar last year then? You might have missed your chance because he definitely wouldn't have cared if you watched." I said I was worried how he would have handled you and she asked "well had you told me this fantasy before hand would you have let it continue? Even with him acting like you weren't there? " I told her yeah because if you would have known you could have just told him my husband has always wanted to watch me with a bbc and maybe we could have further discussed. I told her he seemed a little overly aggressive though. She then said "You were honest with me now im going to be honest with you. I think it would have been fine. All he wanted to do was fuck me, it might sound weird but I could just feel how badly he wanted to. Everything he said with you standing there just turned me on because of the dominance and honestly I had never felt sexier." She continued to say " And she continued to tell me just because I don't see that side of her it doesn't mean she can't be a complete slut for the right guy." I then said we'll you've never been that way with me, feeling kind of jealous. She then says" Your my lover, your supposed to be gentle with me and let's be honest idt you could be aggressive it's just not who you are." Which she was definitely right about so I told her I agree. I then told her maybe one day she could show me how slutty the right bbc would make her and she replied " I think you'd be surprised. "
There were beginning stages and maybe the hottest stages of my marriage. Ofcourse other than finally watching it happen for the first time last year!