I've been into this longer than many here have even been alive and one of the many things you both learn and appreciate is: if it fucking feels good, fucking do it!
It doesn't make sense - to me - to place some artificial or superficial limit on how to be pleasured. Anyone (woman, that is) who knows anything about me knows that my objective in sex is to get the most out of both of us. *******, I want to feel fantastic from the sex. It's insane to believe that how the woman acts doesn't impact the sex overall, so therefore she has to be considered.
Dominant? Hell yeah that's good for me. It's exhilarating. That sense of conquest, of getting it, in spite of any resistance or obstacle. It increases the intensity. And how can getting what you want, how you want, when you want and with someone being bent to your will
not be gratifying?
HOWEVER, if you've ever felt the juices flow when a woman is letting it all hang out - DAMN! (I don't mean what I'm about to say as being derogatory to women but it's the best way to show how I feel...) The emotion that wells up inside when a white bitch is being aggressive is mind blowing. Sure, I know she's tapping as deep as possible into her lust too (the objective, remember?) but it gives me that sensation of being challenged. Fellas, you Alphas out there - how do you feel when you're being challenged? Uh-huh. It's like "What the fuck??!! Bring that ******* on, bitch!! We'll see what's what!!" And that means we're
both on an ultra high. She may be acting and feeling dominant but I’m fucking the ******* out of her even harder and with more fierceness giving it back.
OK, it is, in a psychological sense, tapping into that dominating attitude but it's brought on by an outward reversal of roles. So, for she's dominant, I'm dominant - don't give a *******. My ego is checked at the bed. I just want to get off and get off as hard and as much and as many times as possible – and I need her in on it (otherwise, it’s just masturbation, right?) Just bring on the most intense orgasms possible. Had it both ways, love it both ways.
And if there's a 3rd or 4th way, I'll try that, too! There’s more to sexual gratification than
either, or.!
And
@ThoNi , I will gladly, with immense pleasure, throw down on your sexy white ass and make you my slut bitch every day of the week!!