Black Guys: A question about the Husband watching

Finding the right bull is challenging period!
We're trying to find one I can be friends with, so I can get more comfortable in order to fully relax and let go!
My husband would also prefer it be someone I'm comfortably friends with so we're ALL more relaxed and intimate.
So far we've met a few real jerks, a couple of unattractive and creepy guys, a few possibilities, and some amazing sexual adventures.
This is such an amazing adventure together. It's a very powerful experience for all of us.
We want more!
I couldn't agree more
 
Thank you the years of experience having been in relationships (and I specifically only date bi women open to have threesomes and couple swap) it allows me to understand and know how it is to share ones wife and the variety of ways 3 or more can play but it begins with great conversation and getting a great vibe from all parties involved for great sex
 
As an experienced Bull my personal view is that I want the husband there whenever possible. I want him to see the things that I do to his wife and that his wife does for me. Personally, I enjoy even more when they invite me into their home. Looking around their home and seeing all the evidence of the life they've built together....family photos..vacation pics..souvenirs..and especially their wedding photos. Seeing that pic, knowing that on that day they stood before their family and friends and professed their eternal love for one another......and here I am about to use her like my personal fucktoy.....doing all sorts of unimaginable to her. Knowing that all who attended their wedding would be completely shocked to see what was going on. For me that is where my rush comes from. Yes I enjoy fucking a wife in front of her husband, but nothing beats doing it in their marital bed.
I like that also. Especially if the wife doesn't want me watching but the Bull insists and she has no say in the matter
 
I'm so trying to get him to do more THAN WATCH the thought gets me so turned on to be honest
Hey hun, I'm in the exact same position with my hubs. I have slowly worked on him Over time and he is now allowing me to begin pegging him while he is caged. The thought of him submitting to one of my loves turns me on So much but he is steadfast in his insistence to not do anything sexual. Any tips? Jxoxox
 
As an experienced Bull my personal view is that I want the husband there whenever possible. I want him to see the things that I do to his wife and that his wife does for me. Personally, I enjoy even more when they invite me into their home. Looking around their home and seeing all the evidence of the life they've built together....family photos..vacation pics..souvenirs..and especially their wedding photos. Seeing that pic, knowing that on that day they stood before their family and friends and professed their eternal love for one another......and here I am about to use her like my personal fucktoy.....doing all sorts of unimaginable to her. Knowing that all who attended their wedding would be completely shocked to see what was going on. For me that is where my rush comes from. Yes I enjoy fucking a wife in front of her husband, but nothing beats doing it in their marital bed.
I agree a as cuck I want the bull to fuck my wife in our bed at home.
 
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As an experienced Bull my personal view is that I want the husband there whenever possible. I want him to see the things that I do to his wife and that his wife does for me. Personally, I enjoy even more when they invite me into their home. Looking around their home and seeing all the evidence of the life they've built together....family photos..vacation pics..souvenirs..and especially their wedding photos. Seeing that pic, knowing that on that day they stood before their family and friends and professed their eternal love for one another......and here I am about to use her like my personal fucktoy.....doing all sorts of unimaginable to her. Knowing that all who attended their wedding would be completely shocked to see what was going on. For me that is where my rush comes from. Yes I enjoy fucking a wife in front of her husband, but nothing beats doing it in their marital bed.
Couldn’t say it better!
 
the cuckold lifestyle is about the cuckold being there in my opinion !!!!
It's the only way I'll play .
We both enjoy the pleasure !!! me from the BULL and him from watching and a real BULL that knows the lifestyle would understand that . if not you just another guy having sex with a woman which is just normal everyday sex not a kink or fetish .
AM I WRONG ??
 
the cuckold lifestyle is about the cuckold being there in my opinion !!!!
It's the only way I'll play .
We both enjoy the pleasure !!! me from the BULL and him from watching and a real BULL that knows the lifestyle would understand that . if not you just another guy having sex with a woman which is just normal everyday sex not a kink or fetish .
AM I WRONG ??

Not at all. Some men get off knowing their wife is out with the stud and he's not there watching the action. But, I think this is for advanced couples who have been doing this a LONG time, or maybe a subset of the lifestyle. As a wannabe cuck I'm like you. I would only participate in this lifestyle as a COUPLE at all times.
 
Not at all. Some men get off knowing their wife is out with the stud and he's not there watching the action. But, I think this is for advanced couples who have been doing this a LONG time, or maybe a subset of the lifestyle. As a wannabe cuck I'm like you. I would only participate in this lifestyle as a COUPLE at all times.
We have been in lifestyle for almost10 years and I won't play WITHOUT him close by and if you include just swinging over 20 yrs
 
Some watch, some jerk off, some film and take pics... some I've never even met.

Had one who 'hid' in the closet, yes... HID, while I fucked his woman.
Kinky, a bit weird, but wife was hella fun.

That's awesome. I always try to imagine how much of a power trip it must be for black guys to bring excitement and sexual pleasure to a white wife, while at the same time looking over and seeing that you're indirectly making the husband rock hard. I find that so erotic. That's some not-so-subtle dominance and submissive stuff right there. I know a lot of black guys in this lifestyle don't think much about what the husband thinks, but to be able to grab his wife's ass and make out with his wife, etc and then look over and see that it's turning him on....like i say, that's gotta be a huge POWER TRIP.
 
let him watch, he needs to know who owns that white pussy!
I let him watch on occasion. Depends on my mood & bulls. I have taken to letter him listen via Skype when he's not with me personally. So I will chat to him for about 20 mins and make sure he locked up. Then I'll go the other side of he camera whilst the guys start on me. I like letting his imagination run him in circles.
I know I'm so cruel!
J
Xoxoxoxo
 
I let him watch on occasion. Depends on my mood & bulls. I have taken to letter him listen via Skype when he's not with me personally. So I will chat to him for about 20 mins and make sure he locked up. Then I'll go the other side of he camera whilst the guys start on me. I like letting his imagination run him in circles.
I know I'm so cruel!
J
Xoxoxoxo
It's not cruelty, it's a gift. I also desire such a gift!
 
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