Always have a safe word when doing BDSM and a safe sign when tied up and gagged. This is a signal to your lover that you really want them to stop. It lets you pretend to fight back and maintain an act of being raped, when you really want them to continue. A common safe word is "Yellow" and a common safe sign is to make the "I love you" symbol in sign language. The dominant partner should also "check in" to make certain that the submissive partner is still okay with the situation every few minutes. I would throw away that gag as well, and get something made of rubber.
Very soud advice , I also hold a ping pong all when I am bound and gaged and if it hits the deck EVEYYTHING stops IMMEDATELY .
 
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